Men Want Sex, Women Want Security ft. Rob Kowalski

We Met At Acme

Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar

Education, Society & Culture, Relationships, Self-improvement

4.2 • 2.4K Ratings

🗓️ 26 April 2020

⏱️ 59 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, I virtually sit down with Rob Kowalski. Rob is a best-sell- ing author and speaker who is best known for his views on waiting to have sex before marriage. We discussed why it’s good to wait, how men and women view sex differently, what sex can do to a relationship dynamic, living together before marriage, and more. As you can prob- ably imagine, Rob and I had many debates on this subject and did not see eye to eye. However, we did find a common ground at the end of the episode. The episode starts with a solo where I discuss Too Hot To Handle, saying I Love You in relationships, enneagrams, and how my behavior in relationships has changed from my early 20s.

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0:00.0	The following podcast is a deer media production.
0:06.2	Hey guys, welcome back to We Met It Acme. I'm so excited for today's episode. We literally
0:12.5	fought the entire time in a very playful way because I was defending my ideas and Rob was defending
0:23.9	his ideas. And I'm very excited for you to listen to the episode. Before we get into it, I wanted
0:30.5	to talk a little bit about Too Hot to Handle on Netflix because we binge it in, I'm pretty sure
0:38.4	it was one day. And I have so many thoughts. When I first started watching, I was like, this is
0:45.8	really ridiculous. Like, how can it be, and also it's funny because so Too Hot to Handle basically
0:52.4	for anyone who hasn't watched before I get into it. It's a show, it's kind of like a bootleg
0:57.6	version of Love Island, but basically they have a bunch of people in Mexico in a mansion. And they
1:05.2	are all, you know, hot people who look great in bikinis and bathing suits. And they tell them that
1:12.5	they can't touch each other. They can't kiss. They can't have sex for, I don't know, what,
1:18.8	three weeks, two weeks, whatever it is that they're there. And they need to do exercises to
1:26.8	grow as people, etc., etc. We found it very stupid, but certain things that I want to talk about.
1:34.0	And the reason that I'm talking about it for this week's episode specifically is because
1:39.4	Rob, our guest who you're going to hear very shortly, believes that we should abstain from sex,
1:45.0	and that sex totally changes the way that we look at a person and look at relationships. And
1:52.1	it's not the foundation of a relationship. And so watching a show like this was so interesting because
2:00.4	it takes away, sex, and it takes away kissing. And it says like, you know, do you really,
2:05.1	like all of this stripped away? Do you really have a connection with this person? However,
2:10.4	the show did a terrible example of that because they still let you have sex and they still
2:17.9	let you kiss. And like sometimes, you know, when they feel like your connection is genuine,
2:22.2	they'll put a green light on so you can do these things or they'll send you away to a suite where
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