Memories: Stories about memories left unformed
The Story Collider
Story Collider, Inc.
4.4 • 824 Ratings
🗓️ 29 May 2020
⏱️ 26 minutes
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Summary
This week we share two stories from people whose understanding of the use of memory was challenged.
Part 1: Padraic Stanley gets a fresh start when his abusive father gets diagnosed with Alzheimer's dementia.
Part 2: After meeting a man with a rare memory disorder, Paul Aflalo reconsiders his own memories.
Padraic Stanley is a social worker living in Chicago, IL. He currently works as a program coordinator for health promotion programs in the Rush University Medical Center Department of Social Work & Community Health. He is also the chair of Rush’s Immigrant Health Working Group, which oversees Rush’s immigrant health and welcoming healthcare initiatives. Up until recently, Padraic was also a registry inpatient case manager at Mercy Hospital and Medical Center on the weekends. He is a graduate of the Loyola University Chicago School of Social Work, where he completed the Albert Schweitzer Fellowship and completed a clinical practicum at Heartland Human Care Services and the Illinois Coalition for Immigrant and Refugee Rights. Currently, he is on the associate board for Erie Neighborhood House, a member of the National Schweitzer Fellowship Alumni Leadership Committee, and is on the executive board of the International Association of Social Work with Groups.
Paul Aflalo is a storyteller and documentary producer. He creates narrative-driven pieces for film, radio and podcasts. His work has been featured on CBC Radio, SiriusXM, and presented at film festivals around the world, including the International Documentary Film Festival Amsterdam. Paul has shared stories across Canada, in Europe and the UK. Paul is the Artistic Director of Replay Storytelling, an all-true storytelling show in Canada, and is also the Creative Director of the Aphantasia Network. In 2020 in response to the global pandemic, he founded the world’s first 24-hour True Storytelling Festival, bringing people together from all corners of the globe, to share personal true stories from lived experience. His focus is to help others share the stories that need to be told.
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| 0:00.0 | A science story, huh? |
| 0:04.0 | Is NYU scientist the... |
| 0:06.0 | I felt it was right. |
| 0:08.0 | And I just thought, well... |
| 0:10.0 | It was that golden moment. |
| 0:12.0 | Because science was on my side. |
| 0:15.0 | Hi, everybody. Welcome to The Story Collider, where we bring you true personal stories about science. |
| 0:30.6 | I am your host, Liz Neely, and Aaron Barker will be back next week. |
| 0:34.9 | This week, though, we're presenting stories about memories in honor of all the |
| 0:40.5 | people and all the moments that only exist because we can remember them. Our first story is from |
| 0:47.3 | Patrick Stanley. It was recorded in December 2019 at the Cards Against Humanity Theater in Chicago. |
| 0:54.7 | The theme of that night was, unfolding tomorrow. |
| 1:03.8 | My dad was diagnosed with Alzheimer's dementia at the age of 65. |
| 1:16.6 | And my older sister and I didn't want anything to do with that. We were not interested in taking care of him, |
| 1:20.6 | and we were just not really up for that. |
| 1:25.6 | You see, my dad was not exactly the nicest person before his diagnosis. |
| 1:33.9 | And he was verbally abusive, also physically abusive. And when I say verbally abusive, it's those |
| 1:43.0 | deep-cutting abusive things for when my sister |
| 1:47.1 | was getting ready to apply for college, he said that the two of us thinking about going to |
| 1:54.7 | college would have been a waste of everyone's time and money because we were so damn stupid. |
| 2:01.0 | So when his diagnosis came around because my mom noticed that things were a little more off |
| 2:07.9 | than usual, we were not exactly keen on taking care of him. But we are in an Irish Catholic |
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