You're listening to the How to Talk to Girls podcast with me, Tripp Kramer.

Hello and welcome back to another episode of the How to Talk to Girls podcast.

I'm your host, Chip Kramer from trippadvice.com.

Okay, so we're doing a little bit of a Q&A episode today. If you have a question that you want

answered on the podcast, just write into me. Trip at trippadvice.com. Trip is with two peas. Put in

this subject line podcast question and I will go ahead and answer your questions. So if you have a question that is very

specific and something personal to you, so not just a general question about dating advice,

because those are answered on other episodes. But if you have a situation going on, I'd love to

help you out. And you're going to see how I do it on today's episode if you haven't listened to some of these

Q&A podcasts before. So I'm very excited to be doing it again. And I love hearing from you. I love

connecting with you. And I'm just always interested in being able to give you solutions to your

issues on this as much as I can. So we have one here. Let's just

dive into it. He says, hi, Tripp. I love the podcast. Please leave my name private. Thank you. I need help.

Whenever I meet a pretty woman,

I automatically want to ask her out and get smitten quickly instead of playing it cool. For example,

I take group dance classes and tonight I danced with this pretty woman. I don't think she was into me.

I asked her questions to get to know her, but she asked me none. I want to take her out and make it work. I know this is stupid, but it comes from a place of scarcity and neediness. I don't consider

myself needy, but I don't meet quality women and online dating is terrible, so I practically

fall in love, not literally right away. Is this common? And what can I do to solve this besides the obvious thing

of dating multiple women? To make matters more complicated, I'm also legally blind. So this

hurts my confidence. I know this was long. Thank you very much for your help. Okay. So here's the

thing. You know what's going on. You said, I know this is stupid, but it comes from a place of scarcity and neediness. That's the problem. Okay. Not that you're legally blind. I'm sure that doesn't help, but you can still meet women. It's interesting how you say you're legally blind, but you're able to know if these women are pretty. So you can see on some level. Okay. So listen, yes, you're coming from

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