Meeting People to Date IRL
The Brian Lehrer Show
WNYC
4.6 • 1.5K Ratings
🗓️ 5 August 2025
⏱️ 11 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | Brian Lair on WNYC, and for something completely different for our last 10 or 12 minutes, |
| 0:14.3 | we're going to invite your calls on how you've met people to date other than dating apps in recent years. |
| 0:25.0 | Let's say any time in the last five years, you have to have been out there doing this. |
| 0:30.1 | How have you met people to date other than the dating apps, |
| 0:34.6 | especially if you tried the dating apps and you gave up. |
| 0:38.3 | We know, according to a Pew Research study, that about 30% of adults in the United States say |
| 0:46.0 | they've used a dating app, that's a lot. |
| 0:48.5 | And this is even more common among the younger generations, half of participants under 30 have turned to one of the |
| 0:56.3 | popular apps like Hinge or Bumble, as have 37% of those ages 30 to 49. And yet, there's seemingly |
| 1:04.7 | an endless supply of think pieces and Reddit threads with the same conclusion, dating apps |
| 1:09.7 | kind of suck. |
| 1:16.9 | So whether it's swiping endlessly without a match, safety concerns regarding meeting strangers from the internet or just a lack of authentic connection, many young singles are looking |
| 1:21.0 | for ways to date offline. |
| 1:23.8 | So if this sounds like you, that's our question. |
| 1:26.7 | Have you quit the dating apps, cold turkey in search of love offline? |
| 1:33.0 | If you grew up with the Internet and experienced much of your social life online, |
| 1:38.6 | why is dating online particularly difficult? |
| 1:41.7 | Of course, for a lot of people, isn't. |
| 1:43.0 | I mean, I know people of all ages |
| 1:44.4 | who have recently met their, what turned into their spouses on dating apps. But for you, |
| 1:53.8 | for people who are frustrated with the dating apps, we want your story of being frustrated with a dating |
| 2:00.0 | app and finding a way to meet people in real life. |
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