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Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

Me, You, and Jesus: What A Christ Centered Relationship Really Means.

Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

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Religion & Spirituality, Default, Talk Radio, Christianity

4.8 • 808 Ratings

🗓️ 5 March 2019

⏱️ 7 minutes

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Summary

“I just want to have a Christ centered relationship.” In the Christian dating culture, the term “Christ centered relationship” is a familiar one….one that I’ve heard time and time again. Any Christian couple will tell you they want to keep Jesus at the center of their relationship, but what on earth does that actually mean? Does it mean you pray together and do devotions? Does it mean you go to church together on Sundays? Or could there be more than that? Are there ways you can cultivate your relationship with God as a couple? In this episode I talk about a young man that came up to me after a speaking engagement and told me he believed for sure he had a Christ centered relationship because…drum-roll please….he and his girlfriend read a devotion together every day. I just have to be honest – I think having a Christ centered relationship takes a lot more than that. I want to take some time to unpack that a little bit today. Here’s why: Being Christ-centered is not just something you do – it’s something you ARE. Me, You, and Jesus: A Christ Centered Relationship Today’s question comes from a young man who is wondering just that. He comes to the LOVE + RELATIONSHIPS podcast asking: What are some practical ways to grow in your relationship with God as a couple? Tune into Episode 29 of the LOVE + RELATIONSHIPS PODCAST by subscribing and clicking the links below. Want to be on the Love + Relationships Podcast?  Go to truelovedates.com/loveandrelationships/ to submit your question and learn more. SUBSCRIBE AND LISTEN ON iTUNES BY CLICKING HERE Additional Ways To Listen: STITCHER or SPOTIFY Resources and Additional Show Notes: Today’s podcast was taped in front of a LIVE audience at Lancaster Bible College, be sure to check out this amazing college and be a part of the wonderful things they are doing in the lives of students and staff! Liked this episode? Check out: Single in my 30s: How To Hold On To Hope BOOKS BY DEBRA Get busy learning what you need to know about healthy singleness, dating, and marriage. Check out Choosing Marriage: Why It Has To Start With We > Me or True Love Dates: Your Indispensable Guide to Finding the Love of Your Life. DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, relationship expert, and author of Choosing Marriage and True Love Dates. She’s also the host of the hotline style Love + Relationships Podcast. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter!  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hey, friends, welcome back to the love and relationships podcast. I'm your host, Deborah Felita,

0:24.0

and I'm so glad you're tuning into these candid conversations about love, sex, dating,

0:29.2

singleness, and marriage. For those of you who don't know me or are tuning in for the first time,

0:33.7

I'm a licensed professional counselor and author specializing in relationship issues.

0:39.3

I also run the Relationship Advice blog True Love Dates.com, reaching millions of people with the

0:44.8

message that healthy people make healthy relationships. If you've tuned into the podcast before,

0:51.1

you know it's a hotline style show, meaning people call in or write in with

0:55.2

their relationship questions and I answer them on this show in short, practical, bite-sized

1:00.3

answers. If you have a question that you want me to answer on the show, send it via email or

1:05.8

voice memo to Deborah at true lovedates.com or check out my podcast page, true lovedates.com slash love and

1:13.2

relationships. And I'll do my best to get it answered on one of the episodes. So let's get

1:17.9

started. So recently I had the fun opportunity to record a few episodes of the Love and Relationships

1:30.6

podcast in front of a live audience at Lancaster Bible College.

1:34.7

Here's one of their questions.

1:37.3

Hi.

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Hi.

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My question is, what are some practical real-life examples of ways that you can grow in

1:43.9

your relationship with Christ

1:45.1

together as a couple?

1:46.7

I love that question.

1:48.4

And it's something that a lot of people are wondering about, especially when you go to a Christian

1:54.2

college, especially when you identify as a believer, what does it look like to have a relationship

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