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A little secret. I think you want to know a dirty little secret about a secret little show.

We are, it's a secret show, right? Yeah, you know, everyone's so quiet, though.

Well, what do you want us to do here? We're partying, partying down, guys.

Excellent. I'm excited to hear this thing you said about divorce.

That's fantastic. Crazy. I don't just like just don't know that much about divorce,

and you know, depending on I guess where you live and how long you've been married for,

things can be terrible. Well, I actually don't believe even the cleanest,

nicest divorces are have to be an incredible disturbance to your life in general,

like just incredible, not getting your sleep, not being able to function normally.

It feels like you should get, I don't know, a timeout for the whole process,

the idea that you just have to go and zombie through your day knowing that your

life's falling apart around you is seems cruel and unfair, and yet everyone has to do that sucks.

Well, is it better to go through that no matter how awful and terrible of an experience to get

to the other side of it? I think so, but I do think that there, I've been hearing a story from

a friend about a divorce where the husband is what they describe as a narcissist.

And this person has done, you'd think they'd be too busy trying to have a life to be so busy

destroying their ex-wives life. But that's what this person is up to at all times.

And as I hear the stories, I think you're hearing the woman's part of this.

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