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Passion Struck with John R. Miles

Mattering in Love: Stop Settling—Choose Love That Sees You (Part 1) EP 576

Passion Struck with John R. Miles

John R. Miles

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4.91.3K Ratings

🗓️ 21 February 2025

⏱️ 30 minutes

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Summary

In episode 576, John dives into the power of mattering in love—how your self-worth shapes the relationships you attract, why so many people chase validation instead of connection, and the mindset shift that changes everything.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Coming up next on Passionstruck, what if I told you that the biggest reason people stay in

0:05.9

unfulfilling relationships isn't love, it's self-worth, that most people aren't actually

0:11.6

choosing love, they're just trying not to be alone. The truth is, the way you experience love

0:17.4

is a direct reflection of what you believe you deserve. And if you keep attracting

0:22.8

people who don't show up for you, if you feel like you have to convince someone to choose you,

0:27.9

then it's time to shift your mindset. In this episode, I'm breaking down the mattering mindset

0:33.7

in love. How to stop settling, start building better relationships, and finally feel seen,

0:40.2

valued, and chosen. Because love isn't something you earn. It's something you build with the right

0:45.9

person. Ready to change the way you love? Let's dive in. Welcome to Passionstruck. Hi, I'm your host,

0:52.2

John R. Miles. And on the show, we decipher the secrets,

0:55.8

tips, and guidance of the world's most inspiring people and turned their wisdom into practical

1:01.3

advice for you and those around you. Our mission is to help you unlock the power of intentionality

1:08.1

so that you can become the best version of yourself. If you're new to the show,

1:12.4

I offer advice and answer listener questions on Fridays. We have long-form interviews the rest of

1:18.7

the week with guests ranging from astronauts to authors, CEOs, creators, innovators, scientists,

1:26.1

military leaders, visionaries, and athletes.

1:29.0

Now, let's go out there and become Passionstruck.

1:32.5

Hey there, Passionstruck, fam. Welcome to episode 576.

1:37.3

Whether you've been here for a while or this is your first time, welcome.

1:41.3

This is where we challenge conventional thinking and create lives of impact.

1:46.1

Earlier this week, we had two incredible conversations that pushed the boundaries of personal

1:50.6

transformation. On Tuesday, I sat down with Randy Blight, frontman of Lamb of God, to discuss

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