All right, look, it stinks that we've all had falling outs, but the reality is we've all had falling outs because people people we do dumb stuff for other times we don't do anything

dumb at all and just somebody else is being an idiot it's their turn on that cycle.

But stuff breaks relationally and I think as you age and you get a few miles on the tires

Those broken relationships become one of the things that really nags at you and doesn't feel good.

But I've been watching this show lately that I would say the themes have a lot to do with accountability

and forgiveness and it's very refreshing as opposed to just unending outrage which is the

spirit of the day right now.

I mean there's no forgiveness ever for anything that is expedient for me to not forgive

you for at any point in history.

It's just, yeah I'm going to get all worked up.

It's the bastardization of human

relationships. It's the weaponization of withholding forgiveness for the

advancement of political and social power. I just, I don't like us very much right now for that reason.

It's gross. The thing that I have found humanly to be the most life giving in all of

my relationships is accountability and forgiveness. The part where you realize

you screwed up and then the other party honors the fact that you realized you

screwed up. It's how growth happens, is how change happens, it's how any chance of a long-term honest

sustainable relationship with another flawed human being happens and I'm

preaching a little bit but we're doing stupid stuff right now. We're tinkering with the thing that gives us any chance of being human beings and knowing and being known and experiencing love.

So I don't like unforgiveness culture and I love forgiveness and

forgiveness with accountability and so I've been watching the show lately where that's a big

recurring theme. It's so refreshing it's so much fun. But over the course of our lives, we have relationships that break real ugly,

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