Hello my name is Matt Whitman this is the 10 minute Bible Hour podcast and I would like to share with you my friends,

one of my super secret favorite social things that happens. I love the moment where you are in a dynamic, multifaceted

social situation with people you know really well, people you don't know very

well, people who maybe are pursuing different goals than you're pursuing.

You got all these people in a room, maybe it's a party or a board meeting,

your social setting, whatever, and you're all firing back and forth,

and you know who your allies are,

and you can see that they're catching certain

things and you know because of all the history you have with your good friends who

were there in the room with you that they're registering stuff too and you just

cannot wait to talk and then finally the whole

thing ends and you're like hey you want to just grab a cup of coffee or drink or something real quick and they're like

yeah sure and you're all casual about it because there's still people around and then you go to the

place and you're like dude did you see that thing sister did you hear when that

guy said that thing and you just cannot wait to turn over every single card.

They're like, okay, when you were there

and the two ladies came over and they were talking to you

about the meeting and you said the thing,

were you totally thinking?

And you're like, yes, I was. and I so wanted to tell you what I was

doing there but you played it exactly right I love that after the fact debriefing

strategy session where you turn over all the cards and you ask your question like,

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