(Matt Monday): Why They ALWAYS Come Back + How to Reach Out After It Ends
Love Life with Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
4.8 • 2.9K Ratings
🗓️ 10 June 2024
⏱️ 20 minutes
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Summary
- "What Dating Advice Would You Give to Your 16-Year-Old Self?"
- "When Did You Last Cry?"
- "How Can I Get Over the Shame of Having Stayed Too Long in a Relationship?"
- "Is It Worth Reaching Back Out to an Ex Who May Have Changed?"
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| 0:00.0 | You don't get to be the person you are today with the wisdom you have today without having been the person that you were then. |
| 0:06.0 | So to wish that you were who you are today, then is science fiction. Today we are going to answer some questions. I put the word out on my |
| 0:34.7 | Instagram at the Matthew Hussey and said, what do you want to ask me? Love life |
| 0:39.0 | related, confidence related, life related. What do you want to ask me about me? And so we picked some questions. I haven't actually seen most of these questions, so we'll see how I do on the fly. I'll get through as many as possible in the time that we have and also if you haven't already |
| 0:53.6 | joined my newsletter because if you like free stuff like this video you're watching |
| 0:57.8 | right now every Friday I am releasing a new newsletter a written open letter from me to you with ideas, philosophy, strategies, |
| 1:07.8 | you know, general wisdom that I think could actually help you in the three relationships |
| 1:11.7 | in your life that matter the most, |
| 1:13.0 | your relationship with yourself, your relationship with life, |
| 1:15.3 | and your relationship with other people. |
| 1:17.6 | So join, I'll leave a link here, it's free, and I'll see you in your inbox this Friday. |
| 1:25.0 | On to the questions. |
| 1:28.0 | Our first question is from Jenny Dyson who says hi. |
| 1:32.0 | Ooh, I have two questions. What are three things you would say to your |
| 1:36.7 | 16 year old self about relationships? Three things that I would say to my 16 year old self. Let me think of one thing first. |
| 1:45.0 | I probably would have said to myself, relationships will happen, like you'll have them. |
| 1:52.0 | When someone comes along, it's not your last opportunity |
| 1:54.9 | at a relationship. |
| 1:56.0 | So if someone comes along and they seem to represent a few things |
| 2:00.2 | that you like, it doesn't mean that you have to jump into a relationship with that person immediately |
| 2:06.1 | because no one else will ever come along. You can take your time, you can pay attention to the things that actually aren't right about that relationship, |
| 2:14.4 | maybe even a grounds to not have that relationship. You don't have to come from a place of scarcity |
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