(Matt Monday): Wasted Your Love on the Wrong Person? Listen To This...
Love Life with Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
4.8 • 2.9K Ratings
🗓️ 4 April 2022
⏱️ 6 minutes
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Summary
How much time have you spent beating yourself up for things you wish you’d done differently?
Whether it’s due to:
• A relationship you should’ve left months (or years) earlier
• A family member you could’ve created more distance with
• A job you stayed in too long . . . it’s easy to mentally pummel yourself as you think about all the time you wasted.
But this mindset won’t get you where you need to go. In today’s episode, you’ll learn why you can’t blame the you of the (even recent) past for not meeting the bar you’ve set for yourself today.
And if you’ve been wondering how to get your confidence back—the kind that can help you make peace with the decisions of your past as well as change what’s possible for your future—then you can’t miss this message.
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| 0:00.0 | What's up guys, I just wanted to let you know I have a free guide for you over at 9text.com |
| 0:06.4 | in this free guide. I give you nine very specific messages that you can send to anybody you want to |
| 0:12.0 | attract to create more attraction. Go check it out 9text.com is completely free and you can be |
| 0:19.8 | reading them in the next 60 seconds. |
| 0:44.1 | After ending a 10 year relationship in 2020, while things ended on good terms and I have no regrets, |
| 0:51.6 | I'm trying to reconcile with myself why I stayed for three more years than I should have. Matt, |
| 0:58.8 | how do you get to that core confidence piece again or at all after having gone through this kind of |
| 1:05.6 | failed investment? Look, the thing that you have to remember is that you did the best you could |
| 1:16.8 | with who you were at the time and the information that you had at the time and the stage of your |
| 1:24.0 | development that you were in. It's one of the things that we beat ourselves up for |
| 1:29.6 | or at the end of a process. That process could be in a job that we stayed in for far too long, far |
| 1:36.1 | longer than we should have. It could be with a family member who we've dealt with their stuff |
| 1:42.6 | for far too long and we didn't create the distance that we should have at the time that we should have. |
| 1:48.7 | It could be in a relationship where we spent so long with someone past the point where we saw |
| 1:54.1 | the red flags where we saw the writing on the wall where we saw the ways that they were going to hurt us, |
| 1:58.8 | the ways that this relationship wasn't going to be what we needed. It's very easy to look back |
| 2:05.0 | and to beat ourselves up. Because most of us are aware that life is short, we look at the time |
| 2:12.4 | that's been wasted and we beat ourselves up about that. We don't just beat ourselves up for not |
| 2:16.5 | acting. We beat ourselves up for all of the wasted time and the time that we could have been doing |
| 2:21.2 | something else. We all have different belief systems. My belief system is that |
| 2:26.4 | every step of the way we do what we were always going to do based on our level of development, |
| 2:37.6 | what information we had at the time, what resources we had, what our parents taught us growing up, |
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