If the person on the other end is emotionally available and ready,

they'll engage with the conversation in a meaningful way.

If they're not, then it's time us anxious, confused and wondering where we stand. Whether you've just matched on a dating

app or you're deep in a relationship, there are four stages of mixed signals that we must

understand if we are to avoid getting our heartbroken or worse getting strung along for years

and ending up heartbroken anyway.

In this video, you'll learn which of the four stages you're stuck in and what you can do

to clarify the situation, bring back your confidence, and get the commitment and emotional safety

you're craving. Let's jump in. Stage one, the pen pal phase. This is that moment

where things feel exciting. You've just matched or exchanged numbers. You're texting constantly.

The messages are fun. There's momentum. But one thing is missing. They're not actually asking you

out. You start wondering, are they just shy?

Are they waiting for the right moment?

Do they even want to meet me?

Here is the hard truth.

A lot of people text just to feel connected.

They enjoy the momentary validation,

but they don't necessarily want anything more. What they really want

is your attention, not your love. So that's the first big question we have to ask ourselves at this

stage. Does this person want my attention or my love? Because if all they're doing is reaching

for your time and energy, but not taking any

actual steps towards real connection, you're being kept warm. You are not being pursued.

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