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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.8 • 2.9K Ratings

🗓️ 28 October 2024

⏱️ 14 minutes

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Summary

Tired of dating the wrong people?

When we really want to find a relationship, saying “no” to the people who don’t align with our core values can feel scary . . . especially when we’re not meeting a lot of people we connect with. We may even start to loosen our standards and become attached to someone who’s only giving us crumbs.

In today’s episode, I dive into the subtle-but-profound difference between those who successfully find love, and those who continue to remain in limbo. You’ll also learn how to cultivate the right culture in your life to attract a lasting, fulfilling relationship (plus I share a story from my younger days as a DJ).

Let me know your thoughts in the comments!

►► If You’re Ready to Escape the Maze and Discover What It Takes to Get Real, Lasting Commitment Watch the Limited-Time Replay of Casual to Committed now at . . . → http://www.LoveLifeReplay.com

Transcript

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0:00.0	An acquaintance of a few years has been texting me every day for weeks,
0:05.3	and when I tried to ask him out a week ago, he said no and that he's dating someone. I want to talk about a subtle but profound thing that people who successfully find love do, that other people
0:37.2	don't. And by doing this, it allows them to find the right kind of person far earlier where other people keep running
0:46.7	into the wrong kinds of people. If you're new to the channel, welcome I'm Matthew
0:51.5	Hussey I've been doing this for 17 years helping people find love through increased confidence and relational intelligence.
0:59.0	I'm the author of the New York Times best-selling book Love Life for those of you that don't know and for anyone who wants to join me in one of my events
1:06.9	You just missed one but there's good news
1:10.9	We have a replay of it it happened on the 22nd of October. It was all about how to go from
1:16.6	casual to committed in a relationship. So if you want a long-term relationship, check this out.
1:22.1	The replay is only available for a few more days.
1:24.6	Go to lovelife replay.com to watch it right now. So the subject of today's video came out of a live I did on social media this week where someone asked me this question.
1:40.0	An acquaintance of a few years has been texting me every day for weeks, and when I tried to ask him out a week ago, he said no and that he's dating someone.
1:51.0	He continues texting every day. dating someone
1:53.7	he continues texting every day what to do
1:56.1	Have you ever been in a situation like this that you find confusing where you're wondering what to do.
2:03.6	Why is someone behaving like this?
2:05.7	How can I get their attention?
2:07.5	How do I get them to actually go out with me
2:10.2	if it seems to be stalling in this way.
2:13.6	Do you have a situation right now in your life that you're finding confusing
2:17.6	and are trying to work out what to do next?
2:21.0	All of those questions are the wrong question.
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