(Matt Monday): If He Pulls Away, This Will Make Him Chase You

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.8 • 2.9K Ratings

🗓️ 17 October 2022

⏱️ 10 minutes

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Summary

What can you do when you’re sick of the excuses and deep down want to see them more? Well, you can listen to this brand new Matt Monday, in which I’ll share with you how to avoid the most common mistake in this scenario and finally see some progress.

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0:00.0	I just like to kind of go with the flow and I'm very chill and I don't know I don't like to make
0:04.9	plans about you know what this is and where this is going and put a label on it.
0:15.9	I'm going to read your question that was asked to me from one of my love life club members and there
0:33.4	was a part of this question that I immediately called Bullshare on. I want you to say if you pick up
0:40.9	on what part that was and I will tell you and you can see if you were right. I travel a lot
0:50.0	and there's this guy I started seeing a month and a half ago because of our travel schedules
0:55.9	we've only seen each other every couple of weeks with texting in between. When you have an intent
1:01.2	schedule how do you continue to deepen a relationship? With this guy it feels like there will be
1:08.4	these moments of momentum then things stop. How do you keep it going? Okay which part did you say
1:20.0	was BS? The part that I called out was when she said when you have an intent schedule how do you
1:30.2	continue to deepen a relationship? Here's what I said to her in the moment is that really what you
1:39.1	think? Do you really feel like right now the relationship isn't progressing because you have
1:48.6	such an intense schedule and she looked at me and started smiling. I said let me ask you this
1:54.8	could you text him more? Would you like to? To both of these questions she said yes so what I
2:02.1	said to her is then this isn't your excuse it's his excuse and you've appropriated it. He has a
2:13.2	very busy schedule and has an intense travel schedule blah blah blah and by the way so does she
2:18.7	it's not not true that she has an intense schedule but he uses it as an excuse as to why he
2:24.6	can't give more and she now has adopted the royal we around that excuse. It's a bit like being with
2:33.4	someone who says you know I'm just a really zen person you know I just I just like to kind of go
2:40.4	with the flow and I'm very chill and I don't know I don't like to make plans about you know what
2:45.9	this is and where this is going and put a label on it I'm just I'm more of a spontaneous person
2:51.3	you know and then when you go and describe the situation to your friends and they say hey how's it
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