(Matt Monday): How to Stop Addictive Thoughts About Someone Bad for You
Love Life with Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
4.8 • 2.9K Ratings
🗓️ 23 October 2023
⏱️ 16 minutes
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Summary
If you find yourself getting fixated on someone too quickly—trying to make them fit into a relationship based on who they could be—then watch this week’s episode (taken from my Live Retreat) to figure out when someone is truly worthy of your investment.
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| 0:00.0 | You really want to get obsessed with someone because they're super charming or because you think you have a great connection with that person? |
| 0:06.0 | You have a great connection with that person? Let the relationship prove it out. Oh, Hey, it's Matthew Hussey with the Love Life Podcast. |
| 0:28.7 | Hey everybody, it's Matthew Hussey with the Love Life |
| 0:30.7 | podcast. |
| 0:31.3 | I am excited to share this clip with you today let's get into it. |
| 0:39.2 | How can you stop the addictive thoughts about a man that's not right for you. |
| 0:46.7 | Is that a good one? |
| 0:49.2 | Firstly, we have to ask ourselves |
| 0:51.6 | where are these addictive thoughts coming from. |
| 0:54.0 | If he's not right for you, why, and you've truly accepted that, then why the addictive thoughts? |
| 1:02.0 | Right? |
| 1:03.0 | Now what this person is really saying is logically, |
| 1:05.0 | I know he's not right for me, but emotionally, |
| 1:08.0 | that's not become a truth for me. |
| 1:11.0 | And if you want to understand on an emotional level, it's like, I mean it is incredible |
| 1:18.6 | what happens to us as human beings where we start to like someone. We decide so quickly how wonderful they'd be for us. |
| 1:28.0 | And then based on a fantasy we start having these addictive thoughts. |
| 1:32.0 | This has nothing to do with reality. |
| 1:36.0 | Nothing. And the one thing to be self-referential about this, The one thing I know is I may have a lot of thoughts |
| 1:46.4 | about someone that I have a crush on |
| 1:48.4 | that I want to talk to and I want to ask out |
| 1:51.6 | and there might be an addictive quality to wanting to ask them out. |
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