This isn't about convincing anyone to want commitment.

This is about representing an energy that makes other people want commitment with you. Oh, If you feel like dating today is the hardest time in history to get someone to commit you are not alone

for so many people out there who feel like they only find casual relationships

people who say they're not ready, people who are not

emotionally available, people who don't believe in monogamy, people who don't want to get married

again because they've been married before and they don't want to do it all over again.

People coming across all of these

scenarios get tired, they get exhausted, they get burnt out and perhaps most

tragically they start believing that finding a relationship is no longer possible.

At the very least, it can feel like we have to go through life

convincing other people to want a relationship with us,

to want commitment.

So in today's video, I want to want commitment. So in today's video I want to talk about a piece of human

psychology that I find really fascinating. I'm going to do it with a very

unexpected example,

but when you understand this,

you're no longer going through life and dating

trying to convince people to commit.

You're the person who makes people want to commit.

By the way, while we're on the subject,

and before we get into this video,

there is an event I am holding live

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