(Matt Monday): Feel Them Pulling Away? AVOID THIS MISTAKE

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.8 • 2.9K Ratings

🗓️ 15 August 2022

⏱️ 13 minutes

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Summary

I’ve heard this story a thousand times before . . .

A woman goes on a date with a guy and they hit it off. Things seem to be going well, and pretty soon, they’re seeing each other all the time. He’s texting her daily, making plans with her for the future, and every time his name pops up on her phone, she feels a surge of happiness and excitement.

That very same excitement keeps hitting new peaks until, suddenly, she feels a shift. He grows more and more distant, and at first she’s not sure whether she’s imagining it or whether he really is pulling away. She doubles down on effort and communication, but it only seems to drive him further away until eventually he calls it a day and stops messaging altogether.

If this has ever happened to you, then you know it can drive you crazy working out how to act when someone is clearly pulling away from you.

But as it turns out, there is a right way and a wrong way to proceed when this happens, and it can determine whether someone stays or goes.

In today’s episode, I’ll share with you the #1 reason why people pull away and a high-value way to respond to it.

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Transcript

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0:00.0	Romeo and Juliet wanted to be together.
0:03.5	It wasn't Romeo saying I'll fight for Juliet,
0:06.5	even though she's not sure about me.
0:26.8	Does this sound like a familiar story to you?
0:29.4	You meet someone and you feel something
0:32.5	that maybe you haven't felt in a while.
0:35.1	You feel attracted, you feel connected,
0:38.8	and the best part is that you feel the same way.
0:43.3	And then, just as you're allowing your hopes
0:47.9	to run away with themselves,
0:49.5	you're beginning to think about what this could mean.
0:52.6	You start to feel that person pull away.
0:55.2	Their energy changes,
0:56.8	maybe their communication becomes less consistent,
0:59.5	maybe their responses to you get shorter.
1:02.0	Maybe they stop saying some of the intense things
1:06.4	that they were saying in the beginning.
1:08.3	Those things that stoked your hope in the first place,
1:11.7	the things that got you all excited, they stop saying.
1:18.0	It leaves us wondering what on earth went wrong
1:21.6	when everything seemed to be going so right.
1:24.2	Now, I want to talk about one of the potential reasons
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