Whether it's in a breakup or in early dating, never ever let anyone make you feel like your world is small without them.

That your world doesn't matter. If you are in pain right now because the love of your life ended things with you and you want them back, this video is for you.

Because in this video I am going to talk about what it might take to get someone back

and how we can use this advice to also move on from a person.

For those of you that don't know, I am Matthew Hussey, a coach specializing in confidence

and relational intelligence, and for the last 17 years of my life I have been helping people find love.

So welcome back to the channel, friends.

Now I don't normally talk about this subject for obvious reasons. It is an extremely sticky subject and questionable as to whether we should ever want someone back, especially if that person didn't treat us right.

But there are relationships where someone didn't treat us badly,

and the relationship ended

for reasons that perhaps could shift.

But the beautiful thing about it is everything I'm going to tell you

is also going to be the thing that actually helps you get over them.

Allow me to tell you a quick story. A person that I coached a man

had someone that he broke up with that he had been with for many years

but no longer felt was right for him. He had a couple of big issues with the relationship.

There weren't anything to do with this person's character,

but just things that he was really struggling with.

And he got to the point where he felt like he needed

to make a clean break and go back out into the world to see what else was out there.

In the wake of this breakup, both of them suffered.

She suffered from feeling like she lost the love of her life.

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