(Matt Monday): 5 Reasons You're Single That Have Nothing to Do With Love

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.8 • 2.9K Ratings

🗓️ 12 December 2022

⏱️ 18 minutes

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Summary

“Why am I still single?!?”

If you’ve asked yourself this question long enough, you might be starting to feel like finding love is simply a matter of luck. And sometimes that’s true. But most of the time, we may not realize that the way we’ve set up our everyday life and habits can inadvertently make it harder to find “the one.”

If you’re struggling to figure out why you’re still single, in this week’s video, I give you 5 honest reasons why, plus some quick changes you can make to attract the right relationship faster.

Leave me a comment and let me know which reason resonated the most with you.

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0:00.0	There are things that have nothing to do with our love lives that if we get
0:05.3	those right produce an amazing love life.
0:10.2	Matthew, why am I still single? Why have I not met anybody? And often people are
0:36.2	looking for very direct answers that must relate to their love life, must relate
0:41.8	to something that they are doing wrong in their interactions or some flirting
0:48.0	tip that they don't know about. But the truth of why so many people are single
0:53.2	is actually more structural and indirect than that.
1:00.1	John Kay wrote a book called Oblicity and the idea of this book was that the
1:07.6	results we want to achieve in life are best achieved indirectly. So if you
1:12.6	want to be a millionaire, don't focus on becoming rich, focus on creating an
1:17.5	amazing product that meets people's needs. Focus on your leadership skills,
1:22.4	focus on your ability to build an amazing team and get them on board with your
1:27.1	vision so that they can help you get there. These are indirect things that have
1:30.8	nothing to do with money, but money becomes the byproduct. Well the same is true
1:34.8	in our love lives. There are things that have nothing to do with our love lives
1:39.4	that if we get those right produce an amazing love life, produce more
1:45.8	opportunities might lead to the relationship you have always wanted. What are
1:50.9	the reasons people are single that have nothing to do with their love life.
1:55.7	So I'm gonna read these out and I want you to tell me which ones you resonate
1:59.7	with, leave me a comment and let me know which one are you like? Oh wow that's
2:03.7	mine. That's exactly me. Reason number one you may be single that has nothing to do
2:09.2	with love. You have friendships but not communities. There are a lot of people
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