(Matt Monday): 3 Texts You Can Send to Get Their Attention INSTANTLY
Love Life with Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
4.8 • 2.9K Ratings
🗓️ 8 August 2022
⏱️ 8 minutes
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Summary
On dating apps, first impressions matter. And after you clear the first hurdle of endless swiping and find someone who piques your interest, it’s often the next step that’s the hardest . . . That is, of course: What on EARTH do you say to them?!
You scan their bio, hoping inspiration will strike and you’ll manage to figure out the perfect opening gambit. You think: Would a simple “hey” or “great photo” show a lack of imagination? I’d like to just be myself, but it can feel so hard to be authentic without seeming too eager . . . Many times, thoughts like these make us overthink everything to the point where we end up sending something awkward . . . or worse, not sending anything at all, letting the opportunity of connection pass us by. So how can we make an impression on people who haven’t yet had the chance to meet us and see how awesome we are?
In today’s episode, I’m going to share with you 3 openers you can send right away to stand out on a dating app.
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| 0:00.0 | No idea if we'd get along, but your Jurassic Park t-shirt is a step in the right direction. |
| 0:07.5 | And you can put a little wink in both. |
| 0:09.9 | So let's say you've just come across someone you find really attractive. |
| 0:31.9 | You want to stand out amidst a sea of people. |
| 0:36.2 | What do you send? |
| 0:37.6 | There are three specific messages. |
| 0:41.1 | One of them shows your commonality with someone. |
| 0:43.8 | One of them works because it creates a sense of challenge and the last one works because |
| 0:47.9 | it shows you to have a sense of humour. |
| 0:50.6 | For each of these I'm going to give you a very specific message you can send. |
| 0:53.8 | It's all about knowing what to do and then having the psychology and the mindset to actually |
| 0:59.0 | do it. |
| 1:03.6 | Number one, commonality. |
| 1:06.2 | This is what you send for this message. |
| 1:08.6 | I don't know what it says about me that my favourite picture is number three. |
| 1:15.0 | Now the reason that this is fun is because you can literally choose the picture of him |
| 1:19.5 | that isn't him taking himself seriously. |
| 1:21.6 | You know what it's like on dating apps, a lot of people put pictures of themselves that |
| 1:25.2 | take themselves extraordinarily seriously. |
| 1:28.4 | But then they might have a fun picture. |
| 1:30.1 | A picture of them in fancy dress. |
| 1:31.6 | A picture of them doing something quirky. |
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