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What Fresh Hell: Laughing in the Face of Motherhood | Parenting Tips From Funny Moms

Maternal Gatekeeping: Is It a Thing?

What Fresh Hell: Laughing in the Face of Motherhood | Parenting Tips From Funny Moms

What Fresh Hell: Laughing in the Face of Motherhood

Parenting, Kids & Family, Comedy

4.6962 Ratings

🗓️ 30 April 2025

⏱️ 42 minutes

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Summary

"Maternal gatekeeping" usually shows up in pop culture as an overbearing, overprotective mother preventing everyone else from even touching the baby. But maternal gatekeeping is a multidimensional phenomenon that isn't as simple as anxious mothers needing complete control over their newborn's schedule. Here is what the studies on maternal gatekeeping say and how it can manifest in two-parent households. Amy and Margaret discuss: The three dimensions of the term "maternal gatekeeping" and what the original definition gets wrong The best predictors of maternal gatekeeping in a couple's dynamic The societal pressures that reinforce maternal gatekeeping Here are links to some of the resources mentioned in the episode: Miss Perceived podcast with Leah Ruppanner: Are Dads Being Shut Out of Childcare? Breaking Down the "Maternal Gate" Sarah J. Schoppe-Sullivan, et. al for Parenting Science and Practice Journal: Who are the Gatekeepers? Predictors of Maternal Gatekeeping Sarah M. Allen and Alan J. Hawkins for the Journal of Marriage and Family: Maternal Gatekeeping: Mothers' Beliefs and Behaviors That Inhibit Greater Father Involvement in Family Work We love the sponsors that make this show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on our website: https://www.whatfreshhellpodcast.com/p/promo-codes/ mom friends, funny moms, parenting advice, parenting experts, parenting tips, mothers, families, parenting skills, parenting strategies, parenting styles, busy moms, self-help for moms, manage kid’s behavior, teenager, tween, child development, family activities, family fun, parent child relationship, decluttering, kid-friendly, invisible workload, default parent, emotional labor, cognitive labor, maternal gatekeeping Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:32.3

You could figure out how to use a Revlon hot brush, and I mean, it would be wild to see him try. What fresh hell.

0:39.5

Laughing in the face of motherhood. Let me show you how to cook a whole chicken. It's not magical.

0:45.3

With Margaret Ables and Amy Wilson. The dishwasher is only for sanitizing dishes is one of the hills I will die on.

0:52.6

A podcast that solves today's parenting dilemmas

0:55.5

so you don't have to. And I was like, what have you done? Hello, everyone, and welcome to

1:03.1

what fresh hell laughing in the face of motherhood. This is Margaret. And this is Amy. Today we're

1:07.6

talking about maternal gatekeeping. We've talked to you about this one. I mean,

1:11.9

this is a phrase that comes up quite a bit. I was surprised. I had a speaking engagement the other night,

1:15.9

and people were asking me about the podcast. And I said, I just research an episode of maternal

1:18.9

gatekeeping and nobody in the room had heard of it. Yeah. And it's one of these things where I had

1:24.0

preconceived notions about it coming into it, which have been somewhat changed by the

1:28.6

research I have done.

1:29.7

All right.

1:31.0

All right.

1:31.2

Let's jump into it.

1:32.1

So maternal gatekeeping was a term that was coined in 1999 by two psychologists, Sarah Allen and

1:39.4

Allen Hawkins.

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