Matching & Mirroring- Balancing The Nice Guy Vs. The Jerk Vibe
Coach Corey Wayne
Coach Corey Wayne
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🗓️ 6 December 2022
⏱️ 28 minutes
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How to match and mirror a woman’s actions and balancing out the nice guy vs. the jerk vibe to create attraction.
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| 0:00.0 | Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne and this is my video coaching newsletter. |
| 0:04.0 | And the topic of today's newsletter is going to be matching and mirroring. |
| 0:08.0 | Balancing the nice guy versus the jerk vibe. |
| 0:12.0 | Well, I got three emails I'm going to go through with you today. |
| 0:15.0 | The first to actually, well, really all three of these guys are struggling with the nice guy vibe and |
| 0:22.2 | learning a balance between being too nice and too much of a jerk. |
| 0:26.7 | And so the first two guys are still kind of stuck in nice guy, friend zone-ish type of area. |
| 0:33.5 | And the third guy, he used what he learned in 3% man to reattract his ex a year ago when she tried friend zoning him. |
| 0:42.9 | And he noticed that she's been kind of bitchy and grumpy lately and kind of disrespectful. |
| 0:49.2 | And so his response was to try to match and mirror that. |
| 0:53.4 | But I think he, just from what he shared, |
| 0:55.0 | it sounds like he was a little too much of the jerk. |
| 0:57.8 | So these are three good contrasting emails to go over with, which is basically the same kind of issue. |
| 1:06.3 | So with that said, let's go through the first guy's email. |
| 1:09.5 | He says, hi, coach, there's a girl at the gym I've had a crush on for two years now. She is physically everything I want in a girl. I asked her out a year and a half ago and she told me she had a boyfriend. Despite that, over the next year, whenever I'd see her at the gym, we both constantly were checking each other out. A few months ago, I approached her again and had a great conversation and got her number. |
| 1:29.4 | She told me she currently wasn't involved with anyone. |
| 1:33.0 | Nice. |
| 1:34.2 | The old boomerang. |
| 1:36.1 | The boomerang date. |
| 1:39.1 | We went out for drinks at a nice spot and had non-stop conversation and laughter for three hours before we ended |
| 1:45.4 | up making out at our cars. I initially over-pursued as I tried to set a second date on the first |
| 1:53.2 | one. Come on, man. Which she agreed to, then canceled a couple days later. So he's too eager. |
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