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Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory

Mastering Sex, Power, Gender Roles, & The Secret to Maintaining Relationships That Last | Sadia Khan PT 2

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory

Impact Theory

Business, News Commentary, News

4.75.2K Ratings

🗓️ 23 August 2023

⏱️ 119 minutes

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Summary

Let’s keep the conversation going with relationship expert and psychologist, Sadia Khan, as we dive right into part two of the complex world of relationships and social dynamics that not everyone is willing to be honest about. In part 1 we unpacked the negative implications of over-glorifying a single trait in potential partners, the importance of core values such as honesty, integrity, respect, and care for your partner's well-being, and we uncovered how manipulation can shape relationships for better or worse. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again and again because it’s true: there is NOTHING that has brought me more joy and wellbeing in my life than my 21 year marriage with Lisa. Material wealth, millions of dollars, awards and notoriety mean nothing without the joy I’ve received from sharing my life with the only woman I’ve ever said ‘I love you’ to. If you want to master life, you have to understand how to select well. In the second part of our conversation, Sadia turns up the heat on both men and and women: *Navigating gender roles successfully –you can get this wrong on either side.  *Sex, power, and submission and how to do it all in a healthy way *Why Red Pill content doesn’t lead anyone into a healthy relationship Your journey to a better understanding of human behavior, the opposite sex and relationships starts here.  Follow Sadia Khan: Website: https://www.sadiapsychology.com/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@sadiapsychology  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sadiapsychology  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sadiapsychology/  SPONSORS: elizabeth@advertisepurple.com ***Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact?*** If you’re ready to find true fulfillment, strengthen your focus, and ignite your true potential, the Impact Theory subscription was created just for you. Want to transform your health, sharpen your mindset, improve your relationship, or conquer the business world? This is your epicenter of greatness.  This is not for the faint of heart. This is for those who dare to learn obsessively, every day, day after day. * New episodes delivered ad-free * Unlock the gates to a treasure trove of wisdom from inspiring guests like Andrew Huberman, Mel Robbins, Hal Elrod, Matthew McConaughey, and many, many, more * Exclusive access to Tom’s AMAs, keynote speeches, and suggestions from his personal reading list * You’ll also get access to an 5 additional podcasts with hundreds of archived Impact Theory episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists covering health, mindset, business, relationships, and more: *Legendary Mindset: Mindset & Self-Improvement *Money Mindset: Business & Finance *Relationship Theory: Relationships *Health Theory: Mental & Physical Health *Power Ups: Weekly Doses of Short Motivational Quotes  *****Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3PCvJaz***** Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Welcome back, everybody, for part two of my interview with Sadia Khan, the former psychology teacher turned relationship expert who was helping an entire generation of people unwind the damage of a modern, social media-driven, wealth-obsessed culture's approach to dating.

0:17.0

Here in part two, we discuss how to navigate gender roles successfully, because trust me, you can get it wrong.

0:23.3

We also discuss sex, power, and submission, and how to do it all in a healthy way, as well as why red pill content is never going to lead you to a healthy relationship, and what exactly you should do instead.

0:37.1

I admit, I am very surprised by how

0:39.3

controversial people find Sadia. But I'm eager to hear what you guys think. So give this bad boy

0:44.5

a listen and let me know. And speaking of things that I want your take on, if you haven't

0:48.6

already, be sure to subscribe to my ad-free feed where you will get bonus content and a massive

0:53.4

archive of shows you cannot find anywhere else.

0:56.9

All right, everybody strap in and take notes and join me for Part 2 with Sadia Khan.

1:03.2

Talk to me about gender roles.

1:04.7

One of the reasons that I think you speak so well in this moment is that you do have a more traditional lean, which I think makes

1:12.7

relationships way easier.

1:16.2

What are the roles and how strictly should people adhere to them if they want to be successful?

1:24.5

I think it's just recognizing our evolution.

1:27.0

The reality is women were

1:29.3

designed. One of the reasons why women can move on quickly from heartbreak and relationships and

1:33.8

go from one man to another is in evolutionary times, if they lost their partner to war or to

1:39.4

predators or whatever it is, they'd have to find another one. Even if they shared him with another

1:43.1

bunch of women, they would have to do that. Otherwise, they die. So we have these instincts in us that we can't always

1:48.6

explain. Now, a woman's instinct is always to be somewhat looked after. It doesn't even have to be

1:54.2

financial, but just knowing that a man looks after, that could mean, did you get home safe? Did

1:59.0

work okay? Did you get on your flight okay? Just checking in.

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