MASSIVE RELATIONSHIP RED FLAGS
What We Said
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4.7 • 9.9K Ratings
🗓️ 17 February 2026
⏱️ 66 minutes
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Summary
Whether it’s dating, making friends, or stepping into a new workplace, spotting red flags early can save you a lot of future headache. What We Said listeners submitted their biggest warning signs that someone might deserve a little side-eye — from the universally annoying “never takes responsibility” type to more subtle debates like whether not having long-term friends is a reason to think twice before inviting someone to a girls night. Some are obvious, some are controversial, and all of them spark discussion. Tune in to see where Jaci + Chelsey land, and whether you agree with their takes!
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| 0:00.0 | The following podcast is a Dear Media production. |
| 0:09.8 | Hello, hello, hello. |
| 0:11.6 | Welcome back to the What We Said podcast. |
| 0:14.2 | Happy Tuesday to everyone. |
| 0:17.4 | Hope you had a great Valentine's Day weekend. |
| 0:20.1 | Hope you felt loved. Hope you felt, |
| 0:22.6 | you know, whether it was by yourself, by a partner, by a friend. I knew that was coming. |
| 0:26.3 | What? Whether it was yourself? Yeah. Got to include the loaners out there. No. It's giving |
| 0:31.5 | influencer trying not to get canceled. Whether it was by your dog, your cat, maybe a neighbor or someone online your hamster your |
| 0:39.8 | grandparents if you don't have grandparents your parents you don't have parents literally long-term |
| 0:44.3 | relationship short-term relationship really father figure trying to get everyone in there |
| 0:49.9 | hopefully you felt a smidgen of love over the weekend. And if not, there's always next year. |
| 0:57.3 | That's right. The other day, Leif, I can't even remember why he made the joke. Like, matter of fact, where is everyone from? And it made me laugh so hard. I forgot about that. |
| 1:06.2 | Matter of fact, where's everyone from? I'm screaming. I love a good, a well-placed internet joke in real life. Yes. And when |
| 1:13.5 | everybody understands it, it just... It hits you for it. It is. It was pure euphoric. He, I was |
| 1:20.1 | cackling when he said that. I'm like, I haven't heard that one in a while. It's so good. |
| 1:25.2 | We're from two different... We're from two different climates today. Yeah, I'm giving |
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| 1:46.7 | You know, this is an area I would love to get into, but speaking of getting canceled, it's a nuanced topic that I've been thinking about a lot. |
| 1:53.4 | It's like sustainable shopping and how to do that when you are actually like a shopaholic. |
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