Mary’s Journey: The Costs of Caring for a Loved One in Prison
Latino USA
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4.8 • 3.8K Ratings
🗓️ 4 January 2026
⏱️ 50 minutes
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Summary
One in four women in the United States has a family member in prison — and those carrying the resulting financial and emotional burden are disproportionately women of color. Mary Estrada is one of them. She’s been taking care of her husband, Robert, for 40 years, as he’s been in and out of prison throughout his adult life. Most Sundays, Mary wakes up at 3 a.m. and drives 135 miles each way from Pomona, California, to San Diego to meet her incarcerated husband. In this episode, we accompany Mary on one of her Sunday visits, and we learn about the true costs of supporting a loved one in prison.
This story first aired in 2023.
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| 0:32.7 | Let's go to the show. |
| 0:48.8 | Dear listener, I hope you enjoyed the holiday with your loved ones. It's such a special time, |
| 0:54.9 | but you know, many people simply can't do that. People like Mary Estrada, for example. |
| 0:58.7 | And that's because Mary's husband, Robert, is in prison. |
| 1:01.6 | And it's often women, like Mary, |
| 1:05.7 | who carry the burden of taking care of their incarcerated loved ones. |
| 1:10.6 | Since we first aired this story in 2023, Mary has suffered another loss. |
| 1:15.0 | And I just got telling her, I'm here, mom's here, |
| 1:18.0 | and mom's going to fix it, and I couldn't fix it. |
| 1:23.2 | We'll tell you more about that and how Mary's doing today at the end of our show. |
| 1:32.4 | From Futuro Media, it's Latino USA. I'm Maria Innojosa. Today, Mary's journey, an intimate look at the financial and emotional burden that women carry when they have the loved one behind bars. |
| 1:49.6 | One in four people in the United States have a family member behind bars, |
| 1:55.7 | and those carrying this financial and emotional weight are disproportionately women who are not white. |
| 2:06.3 | Good morning. How are you? My car's dirty. That's fine. You wouldn't tell how early in the |
| 2:14.3 | morning it is by the way Mary Strata looks. She has a perfect blowout with |
| 2:19.1 | some waves framing her round, delicately made up face. It is cold. Yeah, it's very cold. I can hardly |
| 2:25.5 | see her dark eyes under the extra large eyelash extensions. So today is Sunday. It is |
| 2:32.5 | 6.41 in the morning. We're in Pomona, California, leaving my house to go visit my husband in San Diego at R.J. Donovan Prison. |
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