Married Expert Warns: If Your Partner Does This With Money, Your Relationship Won't Last
The Table with Anthony ONeal
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🗓️ 1 March 2026
⏱️ 57 minutes
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Summary
Let me ask you something: Would you take financial advice from someone who's broke?
No? Then why are we taking relationship advice from people who are single and have never been married?
Today is Valentine's Day, and this is the ONLY relationship episode I'm doing all year. And I'm not bringing on just anybody—I'm sitting down with Dr. Christopher Reed, a man who's been married for 30 years, together with his wife for 32 years, and has been coaching couples since 2011.
This isn't theory. This isn't what's trending on social media. This is what ACTUALLY works.
If you're single and tired of bad advice...
If you're in a relationship and struggling with money fights...
If you're married and want to strengthen your foundation...
This conversation will change how you see relationships forever.
Dr. Reed said something that stopped me in my tracks: "You are her second most important decision. Her first yes is God. Her second yes is YOU."
That put weight on my shoulders I'd never felt before. And if you're a man watching this, you need to feel that weight too.
Let's get into it.
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Anthony O'Neal is a nationally bestselling author, speaker, and host of The Table with Anthony O'Neal. He holds a Bachelor of Science in Finance & Banking and is a professor of Consumer Economics at Virginia Union University. Since 2014, he's helped millions of people get out of debt, build wealth, and break generational poverty. His mission is to help you maximize your income, eliminate debt, and create a life of freedom and legacy.
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| 0:33.4 | Dr. Reed, welcome to the table, man. |
| 0:35.8 | What's up, man? |
| 0:37.0 | Y'all want to get into it. |
| 0:40.3 | Because today's Valentine's Day when this video is coming out. |
| 0:43.5 | So this is a special one. |
| 0:45.2 | This is the only relationship show I would do the entire year of 2026. |
| 0:49.2 | Okay. |
| 0:50.2 | But we're going to talk about money and relationships |
| 0:54.2 | and relationships stuff like that for this special day of Valentine's Day. |
| 0:58.4 | But I got to be honest with you up front. |
| 1:00.3 | Okay. |
| 1:02.3 | In today's society, man, everybody and her mom is a relationship expert. |
| 1:07.2 | Of course. |
| 1:08.9 | I would even say, correct me if I'm wrong, 85 to 90% maybe of the well-known relationship |
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