But when you start thinking my life is ruined if I don't get married or if you know and then you start to becoming desperate

Then you're going to make a desperate decision and that decision will create even bigger problems Any questions, anybody?

Thank you for coming everyone. Yes, of course.

So I would love to ask you, let me turn my name is my name is Adi Jen.

So I would love to ask how to deal with the

life in general about drug use because, you know, life is being like difficult.

So, like, the jobs and the parents and everything is life

and the pressure to get married for the spouse and how to deal with that.

Because life is such, you know.

You know,

Allah says,

Laqad Khaelakna in Khabad.

We created the human being in difficulty.

So your difficulties were designed for you. My difficulties were designed for you.

My difficulties were designed for me.

Right? And Allah would not give us those if we didn't, if we, we couldn't handle it.

So the question isn't how to deal with it.

It's how do you, how do you do the right thing even when you're under pressure?

And like, for example, you said the pressure to get married.

Okay, well, that pressure, actually, if you look at it in the grand scheme of things, is meaningless.

It's meaningless.

Why? Because when the right person you have to get married to will come along, then you'll get married. If not, it's okay.

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