What do I do?

What do I do?

What do I say?

What do I say?

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What's up? My man. My name is Seth Studley. I'm a licensed marriage and family therapist. Welcome to Anatomy of Marriage. Today it's just solo.

Once again, my lady, my main squeeze, baby mama, big booty as I call her on my phone. She is at Pilates. She is at Pilates with her best friends. And then after that, she's going to go to coffee. She's going to talk about anything she wants to, right?

And I love, love, love, giving her that opportunity to go out there and say, hey, lady, you got all the stuff is taking care of at the house. You go have fun. I got it taken care of.

And that's one of the things I want to talk about today in this episode, actually two things. And I'm going to keep it on task. I promise you guys. So this is for the men and ladies, this for you to also share with your dudes if they are not doing this or if they need to boost, right?

So today we're going to talk about building self confidence, right? As a guy, as a man, and then also giving just doing rights, doing right towards your wife, doing right towards your wife.

Okay. So let's start out. By the way, welcome to the show. This is Anatomy of Marriage. We give real help for real couples without the bull crap.

Right. Again, I'm a licensed marriage with therapist. Me and Melanie been married for 17 years coming up in August. We got three kids. This is what we do full time. So we bring it. You get it. So let's go.

So one of the things that me and Melanie been talking about a lot recently. As you know, we have been watching lost.

And you know, whatever we're late to the game for sure. But that show is pretty cool. It's interesting. Right. It's clickbaiting on that stuff. But we've been watching it with our kids.

And we've really been having some great conversations around that. And one of those main themes that keeps on coming back and coming back and revisited over and over for Melanie is, she's like, hey, Seth.

When I see Sawyer or Jack or Syed, especially Syed's her new boyfriend, show up the way that they do much like Indiana Jones or the dude in the mummy. I can't brand and Frazier in the mummy. They go, okay, lady, I got this situation.

I don't know exactly what to do, but I'm going to try my damnedest and hardest to do the right thing. That's will give you protection that will give us direction and will give us provision over this. Right.

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