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The Alli Worthington Show

Marriage and Happiness: What the Latest Research Shows with Brad Wilcox

The Alli Worthington Show

Alli Worthington

Health & Fitness, Self-improvement, Education, Society & Culture

4.8634 Ratings

🗓️ 1 April 2024

⏱️ 33 minutes

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Summary

Today's show is part of the insightful "Society Check-In" mini-series.  This episode is all about understanding what's happening in our culture, how we should educate ourselves, and how that knowledge translates to effective leadership everywhere, from the workplace to our own families. This episode is a must-share!  I'm joined by expert Brad Wilcox, director of the National Marriage Project, to talk about the research on families and marriage. His new book, Get Married: Why Americans Must Defy the Elites, Forge Strong Families, and Save Civilization, explains how the current erosion of strong families is at the root of many of our society's problems, and it traces this decline back to anti-family influences in entertainment, politics, media, education, and big business. Join Brad and I as we talk about:  What types of people are the happiest How marriage affects our happiness Four groups that are forging strong marriages Ways our community can support struggling marriages The family first model Teaching our kids the success sequence Favorite quotes:  9:27 audio - “There are four groups today, Asian Americans, religious Americans, college-educated Americans, and conservative Americans who are more likely to be married today and either more likely to be happily married or stably married.” 10:18 audio - “For most couples, especially those with kids, having a reliable breadwinner in the picture is key.” 15:26 audio- “Serving others and being there for others actually makes us happier.” 16:57 audio - “In general, we see that both men and women who are married parents are the happiest Americans today and that is because our kids bring us not just stress and drama but also a lot of meaning and joy.”  18:25 audio - “For young adults who do those three things, get a high school degree, are working, and get married their odds of being poor as they head into their late 20s and 30s are just 3 and their odds of being in the middle class or higher are 86%.” 22:04 audio - “Couples that are embedded in a church community or some kind of synagogue or temple are more likely to avoid divorce because they are surrounded by people who tend to prioritize marriage and family.” Coaching this week: How to Make Progress (Audio 23:47)  In today’s coaching session, I talked about how necessary it is to take a small step forward, even without perfect clarity. What will inaction cost you? I also discussed some quick ways to commit to taking action—God will guide you as you go. Links to great things we discussed:  Institute for Family Studies Get Married: Why Americans Must Defy the Elites, Forge Strong Families, and Save Civilization Family / Best Is Yet to Come - Judah & the Lion The Power of Commitment Measuring Spoons 3-Day Course Idea Breakthrough Alli on YouTube Called Creatives Order your copy of Remaining You While Raising Them here. Hope you loved this episode!  Be sure to subscribe in iTunes and slap some stars on a review! :)xo, Alli

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0:00.0

Yes, I recommend regular date nights, but recognize and realize that it's much more than feelings,

0:05.1

much more than butterflies in the stomach. Marriage is about commitment, about kids, about cash,

0:11.1

and about kin.

0:14.6

Hey, hey, I'm Allie, and I believe that an emotionally healthy you is the greatest gift you can

0:20.4

give yourself,

0:21.6

your family, and the world.

0:23.4

This is your weekly investment in your personal development.

0:26.8

Join discussions with top experts as we focus on how to achieve your dreams, grow your

0:31.7

business, and deepen your faith.

0:33.5

As always, we keep it practical with lots of tools and action steps that you can put into motion today.

0:39.6

I'm so glad you're here. Let's dive in.

0:44.8

Welcome to the show today. You're in the right place because we are in our second and sadly last show of the mini series that I'm calling Society Check In.

0:57.9

It's a check-in to find out what's going on in culture, what we need to know, how do we need to educate ourselves so we can lead effectively

1:02.5

in our work, in the world, with our families, with the people in the community. This episode is

1:07.8

going to be so fascinating. This is one that you're going to want to share over and over again.

1:12.3

I have Brad Wilcox with me, and we're diving in to what the research says.

1:17.0

Now, this is research without an agenda, says about families and marriage.

1:21.7

We learned about luxury beliefs last week with Rob Henderson, and this ties into those luxury beliefs perfectly. We're going to dive

1:29.4

into the data. We're going to dive into what it means. It is a quick episode that I think you're

1:34.5

going to love. Like I said, this is one that you're going to want to share with a lot of people.

1:38.7

And after we talk with Brad, it's time for coaching, of course. Today, I am giving you how to begin

1:43.8

making progress when you feel stuck

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