Marriage | 221
Simple
Tsh Oxenreider
4.3 • 879 Ratings
🗓️ 15 November 2019
⏱️ 40 minutes
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Summary
Crystal and Tsh are in different stages of their respective marriages, so in this chat, Crystal talks about things she didn't know about marriage when she was younger — the things MANY of us don't realize until we live through it in our marriages. And since Tsh and her husband recently celebrated their 17th anniversary, she shares some of the practicals of what's working for them right now, specifically in regards to communication and having more fun.
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| 0:00.0 | This is simple. I'm talking to my friend and co-host |
| 0:18.8 | Crystal Ellesin and as always we're talking more about what we wrote about this week. |
| 0:24.0 | Crystal and I both wrote about marriage actually. |
| 0:26.5 | Our marriages are in somewhat different stages in a variety of ways. |
| 0:29.5 | So in this chat, Crystal goes into things she didn't know about marriage when she was younger. |
| 0:34.4 | You know, the things you either don't notice or assume just happen on their own or even things |
| 0:39.5 | you think are the opposite of what's real. And then since Kyle and I just recently celebrated our |
| 0:45.1 | 17th anniversary at the beginning of this month, I talk about the practicals of |
| 0:49.5 | what's working for us right now in that messy middle stage of marriage, specifically in regards to communication |
| 0:56.2 | and having more fun. If you read my essay this week, you know one of our goals in this next year of marriage |
| 1:01.7 | is to have more fun and not |
| 1:03.6 | always take things so seriously or be just about the business of life. |
| 1:07.0 | So we'll get right into it but first a reminder that I have started a |
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| 1:34.2 | this space in the coming months. So check out more details through the link in the |
| 1:38.3 | show notes of this episode number 221 or head to the Artisimple. |
| 1:42.8 | Net slash community. |
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