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Good Life Project

Marlo Thomas & Phil Donahue | 40 Years Together, What's the Secret?

Good Life Project

Jonathan Fields / Acast

Education, Wellness, Self-improvement, Midlife, Health & Fitness, Intentional Living, Personal Growth, Living Well, How To

4.53.4K Ratings

🗓️ 3 May 2021

⏱️ 66 minutes

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Summary

Iconic actress, producer, author and activist, Marlo Thomas, never wanted to marry. She saw what she believed was the way marriage “had” to be - one person giving up their dream for the other - and knew it wasn’t for her. Then, one fateful day in 1977, she appeared as an hourlong guest on the legendary daytime talk show hosted by Phil Donaghue. Both were smitten, they sensed something powerful had happened, but neither of them knew that conversation, aired before millions of viewers on daytime TV, would effectively be a first date that would lead to a marriage that’s now lasted more than 40 years.

Reflecting on what makes a relationship last that long, they got curious and began to set up double dates with many celebrity couples they know, and others they didn’t. People like Viola Davis and her husband, actor Julius Tennon, filmmaker Rob Reiner and his wife Michele; award-winning journalists Bob Woodward & Elsa Walsh; Ted Danson and Mary Steenburgen; Ray Romano and his wife Anna, Neil Patrick Harris and his actor/chef-husband David Burtka; the Rev. Jesse and Jacqueline Jackson, John Leguizamo and wife Justine and so many others. 

Those hours-long conversations went so deep, got so vulnerable, open and at times, hysterically funny, they turned interviews into the bestselling book, What Makes a Marriage Last. And now, those conversations and more are featured in their new original podcast series, Double Date (https://www.pushkin.fm/show/double-date-marlo-thomas-phil-donahue/). We had so much fun talking about those early moments in their lives and relationship, what was really going on in each of their lives, hearts and minds and what they learned sitting down for double dates with so many incredible, long-term couples. 

You can find Marlo & Phil's new podcast at:

Double Date : https://www.pushkin.fm/show/double-date-marlo-thomas-phil-donahue/

If you LOVED this episode:

You will also love the conversation that we had with Julie and John Gottman (https://tinyurl.com/gottman-love-lab), who are the founders of the legendary Love Lab, and their deep-dive into what love and what long-term relationships and marriages really are all about.

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0:00.0

So one of today's guests, iconic actress producer author and activist Marlott Thomas never

0:11.2

wanted to marry.

0:12.9

She saw what she believed as the way Marlott had to be, one person giving up their dream

0:17.6

for another, and just knew it wasn't for her.

0:20.4

And then one faithful day in 1977.

0:23.5

She appeared as an hour-long guest on the legendary daytime talk show hosted by my other

0:28.7

guest today, Phil Donahue.

0:31.4

Both were smitten to put it mildly.

0:33.6

They sensed something powerful had happened, but neither of them knew that that conversation,

0:38.5

aired before millions of viewers on daytime TV, would effectively be a first date that

0:44.4

would lead to a marriage that has now lasted more than four decades.

0:48.4

And more recently, reflecting on what makes a relationship last that long, they got

0:51.9

really curious and began to set up double dates with many celebrity couples that they know

0:56.4

and others that they didn't.

0:58.2

People like Viola Davis and her husband actor Julius Tenan, filmmaker Rob Reiner and his

1:03.4

wife Michelle, award-winning journalist Bob Woodward and Elsa Walsh, Ted Danson and Mary

1:08.6

Stene Bergen, Neil Patrick Harris and his actor chef husband David Berkha, John Leguizamo

1:14.4

and his wife Justine and so many others.

1:17.3

And those hour-long conversations, they went so deep so fast, got so vulnerable and open

1:22.6

at a times, really hysterically funny.

1:25.1

They turned the interviews into the best-selling book What Makes a Marriage Last.

1:29.5

And now those conversations and more are featured in their new original podcast series,

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