Many women don't want kids. And for good reason.
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🗓️ 24 March 2026
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Summary
Are you sick of dating? Terrified of how expensive everything is? Frustrated with America's so-called social safety net? Horrified by the state of healthcare? If you answered yes to any of these, you might be one of the many people deciding to go childfree.
Host Brittany Luse is joined by Sarah McCammon, Senior Fellow at Third Way, and Emma Gannon, author of the novel Olive, to explore the reasons people feel like life might be better without a child -- and how that impacts everyone.
(0:00) Why women choose to go childfree
(1:53) The economic & ideological responses to declining birth rates
(6:01) Pushing back against negative assumptions of childfree women
(10:39) How to deal with society's judgment of family size and choice
(17:33) How childfree women shape modern society
(25:45) How culture and policy lag behind women's expectations of life
(31:02) What true childbearing freedom looks like for everyone
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The myth of modern "adulthood"
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| 0:00.0 | You know, it is like the millennial generation, I feel, that has said openly, I don't want to have children, but also finding that conversation difficult to have with their parents who expected to be a grandparent, you know, like the disappointment of being a woman who doesn't want children. People love to say you'll change your mind. They love to scaremonger you and say you're going to sort of die a lonely death. And I, as I get older, I'm so |
| 0:23.1 | happy with my decision more and more. |
| 0:26.8 | The American birth rate is declining and there have been countless theories as to why that is. |
| 0:32.1 | But we've mostly explored the following birth rate from the perspective of people who might |
| 0:36.6 | otherwise want kids. But what about people who might otherwise want kids. |
| 0:38.1 | But what about people who don't want kids at all? |
| 0:41.6 | To get into all of this, I've got Sarah McCammon, senior fellow at Third Way, and Emma Gannon, author of the novel, Olive, which explores the decision of being child-free by choice. |
| 0:52.0 | Emma, Sarah, welcome to it's been a minute. |
| 0:54.0 | Thank you so much. |
| 0:54.8 | Yeah, thanks for having me. |
| 0:58.9 | Hello, hello. |
| 1:00.3 | I'm Brittany Luce, and you're listening to It's Been a Minute from NPR, |
| 1:03.7 | a show about what's going on in culture and why it doesn't happen by accident. |
| 1:15.8 | Good. why it doesn't happen by accident. Okay, so I want to start off by defining some terms. |
| 1:20.0 | Like when people talk about, you know, those of us who are adults without kids, there are |
| 1:24.3 | a couple different terms used, childless and child free. |
| 1:29.0 | Sometimes in other media, I'll see those terms used interchangeably, although they're |
| 1:32.5 | definitely not the same thing. |
| 1:34.8 | Childless implies that being a non-parent may be a matter of circumstance. |
| 1:39.6 | Like maybe you wanted kids, but it didn't work out. |
| 1:42.1 | But the term child free is much more rooted in the choice to be a non-parent. |
| 1:49.5 | That's the group of people we'll be discussing today. |
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