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Help Me Be Me

Manufacturing the Capacity for Happiness

Help Me Be Me

Cloud10

Health & Fitness

4.81.9K Ratings

🗓️ 15 April 2015

⏱️ 13 minutes

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Summary

This is a little power-up episode about creating more joy-filled and memorable moments in your life. Happiness is a thought-habit that for many of us, requires constant maintenance and deliberate focus. Though there are many reasons to feel grateful for our life – they’re all around us all the time - in order to be capable of feeling that value, we need contrast. Contrast meaning the complimentary opposite of gratitude and appreciation: pain or difficult striving. In other words, a constant state of awareness of value (happiness) often arrives from a true understanding of its absence (pain). Without that contrast, it’s easy for life to get stuck in a middle array of emotions – a permanent state of “so-so” or “okay.” When you live in this state for long enough, powerful emotions like gratitude and happiness are assigned to a set of general milestones (birthdays, weddings, getting a promotion etc) but outside of that it can be frustrating to find a true sense of joy. The real kind – that moves you to tears, or sticks in your memory for the rest of your life. So that kind of joy is what I want to talk about. You have the power to create that range in your life, minus the negative contrast. It’s a super power you are likely unaware of until you actually put it to use: but when you approach life in this way, you are also expanding your capacity to feel love, gratitude and happiness. So if you’re interested in having more of those real joyful moments, this is a podcast for you. And if you want to read the blog version of this I will post it shortly on TeaspoonOfHappy.com Smile lovely friends! xox Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hi friends, it's Sarah May. I have a mini power up episode today about I guess it's it's about gratitude

0:20.6

about manufacturing gratitude.

0:23.0

So I'm calling it contrast because that's kind of the tool.

0:29.0

Because gratitude is kind of a thought habit

0:32.0

and it takes often it takes reminders like daily

0:36.0

reminders to be grateful and there are reasons that you should feel grateful

0:42.1

but it's often training yourself to notice those

0:46.2

things because for you to be capable of feeling the value of what is great in your

0:52.3

life whether that's your loved ones or just what you have,

0:58.9

you just need that contrast in order to have the awareness, like in order to be able to be in touch with it, you need the

1:07.6

complementary understanding of black.

1:11.5

So without that, things just kind of become same and we tend to lose the ability to really feel happiness and gratitude for what we have in our lives.

1:24.0

So, and what I mean by contrast is pain in order to feel joy,

1:31.0

suffering in order to feel ecstasy.

1:38.6

You have to, in order to appreciate things,

1:40.8

you have to understand the feeling of hard work.

1:44.4

In order to understand value, you understand loss.

1:49.2

So without those, your life would mean nothing. It would not feel like anything. And that can be its own

1:57.2

version of depression where you just have a consistent middle, kind of like a purgatory.

2:05.6

So the people that tend to stay in this middle

2:09.4

and don't feel great, they don't feel bad. They tend to kind of live life by the prescribed

2:18.4

milestones, the emotional milestones that you're supposed to feel and that's when you

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