What up, bitches. Welcome back to Law of Attraction, Change My Life. I'm your host,

Francesca Amber, and today I'm joined by Tanya

Ferrari from Manifesting Baby who I actually met at Manifest in Newcastle, Yopet. And as soon as I

saw her business and her brand, I was absolutely intrigued because manifesting fertility, pregnancies,

babies is something that I love to share,

I love to talk about, but kind of needs to be done in quite a sensitive way. And so what better

than to have a fucking expert here, right? So welcome. Thank you. I'm so excited to have you here.

And also because we do share kind of similar stories, don't we? See you had endometriosis and I was diagnosed with polycystic ovaries, both of which give you a diminished chance of fertility. So tell me your story with endometriosis. What was your fertility journey? Yeah, so I got diagnosed with endometriosis. I think I was about 26 And I, to be diagnosed of endometriosis, you have to have surgery, unfortunately.

Always suffered with really painful periods, had surgery.

And when I woke up from surgery, you know, off my nut on anesthetic, the surgeon basically said to me, you've got it bad.

So wait, the surgery doesn't fix it. That's just, yeah, so they can, but what they did with me was just diagnostic. Just went in, had a look, and then said, you've got it bad, and you will really struggle to conceive. He actually said, if you'd have left it an extra month, you would be infertile completely. Now, I've then been told by other surgeons that that's impossible to give that kind of timeline but still he'd

said you're gonna struggle to conceive but at the time I wasn't even thinking I was

with my partner but I wasn't even thinking about having a baby so it didn't

really weigh on me that heavy at that point went on with my life and then it

was when we then went to try and conceive and it didn't happen.

I then remembered what it had said and then that was it. That was my biggest limiting belief on my

fertility journey. You will struggle to conceive and that's what I had to work to overcome.

And so what a horrible thing to hear in your mid-20s because I'm trying to remember the timeline of my

polycystic ovaries, but I like you was like, I don't give a shit about my fertility.

Like I don't really care. I don't want a baby. And I had taken the pill for years and I actually

stopped it and didn't ever get my period back. And it was only when I met my ex-husband that I just mentioned one day. I was like, huh, how funny. I haven't had a period for like a year. And he's like an ultra-planar, ultra-paranoid about everything. And he was like, you need to go to the doctors. And I went, did all the scans and everything. And they were like, you've got polycystic ovaries like you have not had a

period for a year if you don't have a period you're very unlikely to be able to have a baby you're

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