Hi, Bessies. Happy Monday. Welcome back. It looks like a dying rat again. I'm actually about to go get a spray tan. So she looks dry and she looks pale and she looks ill. But it's okay because she's going to be tan and glowing after this podcast episode that you

will not see me tan and glowing so just enjoy this um so today we're going to talk about some

steps that you can take to be the boss-ass bitch you want to be okay and step number one is to get

really specific about your goals and visualize

them. This is the best way to make your actions come to life because your brain can truly not

tell a difference between reality and dreams. So if you are sitting there and you're literally,

the more detailed you can be, the better envisioning the life that you want or the relationship that you want, the career that you want.

And like step by step or going through it, and I like to do this right before I go to sleep,

like when I start to get in that dream state where I'm like, I'm almost there, but I'm not there yet.

Like that's for me when I feel like I can really manifest everything.

And so visualization is a huge part of that for me.

And I do it every single night.

And the funny thing is, is I didn't know that that was what I was doing until a couple

years ago when I saw, like, I don't even know what I saw. Maybe it was like a real or a TikTok or someone talking about it, but it kind of clicked. I'm like, oh, my God, I've been doing that for years. So getting really specific about what you want, you cannot bring in what you want if you don't know what it is that you want right you're like okay

I want more money no you have to actually like know what steps are you going to take to get that and like

showing up on top of the visualization is um showing up as the person that already has that so something

that I loved is like before I was the Dallas Estetician, like I started to tell myself that I was successful and I was not. Um, you know, it's like you got to be a little delulu. So starting to have the habits that the version of you that you want to be would already be doing. So, you know, if it's to have a better body, you know, when you're waking up early,

like you're someone who has like a six pack and you're going on a run and you're eating healthy,

like all of those things, like you have to act to the part truly.

Dress for the career you want.

Dress for the life you want. treat your body the way that that person

would treat their body, speak the way that that person would speak, watch things that that person

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