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Rejuvenaging with Dr. Ron Kaiser

Managing your Expectations to Become Extraordinary

Rejuvenaging with Dr. Ron Kaiser

Dr. Ron Kaiser

Rejuvenate, Age, Aging, Fitness & Nutrition, Mental, Self-help, Gym, Doctor, Health, Fitness, Emotional Health

5.01.4K Ratings

🗓️ 1 September 2020

⏱️ 38 minutes

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Summary

Every single moment of our life, every decision and choice starts and ends with an expectation. How you react to these expectations shapes your life’s journey and learning how to manage them and consciously choosing to do that with positivity goes a long way in creating happiness within you.


Once you realize that happiness is not something material you can attain, but something that lives inside of you, you will learn to live how you want and will increase the odds of things going right for yourself.


As someone who lives by this and whose positivity has allowed him to overcome anything, I am beyond excited to present to you today’s guest, Art Costello. As a writer, life coach, mental health counselor, entrepreneur, and expectation therapy visionary, Art offers his knowledge and wisdom in hopes of helping others thrive and live the freer, more productive life they have dreamed of.


Art is devoted to helping others, including families and businesses, by identifying what is preventing each individual or group from reaching their full potential. Guided by the strength and joy his family brings him, and having lived some very traumatic and draining experiences throughout his life, Art shapes and creates his advice based on his experiences and the things that move him. He created a program - called Expectation Therapy - that powerfully teaches you how to dispose of your limitations, that teaches how to manage your self-expectations and transform how you process, communicate, and perceive your goals.


Listen to Episode 52 of Rejuvenaging, to learn more about expectation therapy and Art’s journey through life.  


Some questions I ask:

  • What exactly is expectation therapy? (03:56)
  • I know you've recently had a successful back surgery. Did you use your theories, your thinking process to help you with the recovery? (15:00)
  • If somebody is in the position of having to start over, especially if they had nothing to do with why they're in this position, what should their expectations be of themselves? And what are some of the behaviors they could be doing? (27:00)
  • When should people consider reaching you out for help? (30:45)


In this episode, you will learn:

  • The role mindset plays in changing your expectations. (12:26)
  • How Art’s journey helped him develop the theory of positive expectation (19:26)
  • What being in the Marine taught Art. (22:04)
  • Art’s three core expectations. (26:30)
  • The tools Art offers so you can begin the journey of managing your expectations. (32:14)


Connect with Art:


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0:00.0

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0:19.2

Welcome to Rejuvenaging with Dr. Ron Kaiser. This is the podcast designed to help

0:24.5

you live your life enthusiastically today, tomorrow, and every other day of your life. I am your host,

0:31.6

Ron Kaiser, my positive health psychologist and also author of the award-winning and best-selling book,

0:38.0

Rejuvenaging, the art and science of growing older with enthusiasm. My website is www.thementalhealthgym.com.

0:48.8

It's your source of information for all things related to Rejuvenaging, Positive Psychology,

0:54.8

and my approach to therapy, which I call goal-achieving psychotherapy. As those of you who are

1:01.8

regular listeners to the podcast, no most of our podcasts are devoted to having really interesting

1:08.2

guests who leave their own lives with enthusiasm and can help us in moving forward in the most

1:16.7

effective manner to become the best versions of ourselves. Today's guest is no exception. In fact,

1:23.5

it's somebody who I've really wanted to get on the podcast for a long time and we're really

1:30.5

happy to have Art Costello, who is the founder and the brains behind expectation therapy. Art is an

1:39.6

author and speaker and successful entrepreneur. He offers wisdom as well as tangible tools for

1:46.4

success that will boost your confidence, encourage your journey, and affirm you as you begin to enjoy

1:54.4

the freer and more productive life that you've always longed for. Art lives in Austin, Texas with

2:02.2

his wife Beverly. He also has three grown children and five grandchildren. So we're a little behind

2:09.6

you. We got two children and two grandchildren. Art's background includes serving as a marine and

2:15.5

Vietnam, playing college, and semi-professional baseball, and working as a talent scout in the

2:22.8

entertainment industry. As a counselor with Mercy Mental Health in San Diego, he has worked with the

2:30.2

world-renowned play researcher, Dr. Stuart Brown. Art has obviously very impressive background,

2:38.9

varied background, and we're really excited to have him with us. So Art, welcome to rejuvenating

2:46.8

with Dr. Ron Kaiser. Dr. Ron, I'm so happy to be here. We've met several times over the years and

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