Man-on-man abuse, student-teacher relationships, and fan dreams
Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
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🗓️ 22 November 2023
⏱️ 80 minutes
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00:00 Why do men target other men for abuse?
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November 22, 2023
The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®
Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.
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| 0:00.0 | So, Burto, emails, let's answer him, what do you say? |
| 0:03.4 | Let's do it. |
| 0:04.4 | This is the psychology in Seattle podcast. |
| 0:06.2 | I'm your host, Dr Kirkhonda. |
| 0:07.3 | I'm a therapist and I'm a professor. |
| 0:09.5 | A professor. |
| 0:10.7 | My name is Umberto Kastagna and I swim upstream looking for just the right salmon. |
| 0:16.0 | So this email is from anonymous patron. He says, |
| 0:21.0 | Hello, I recently listened to your woman on woman's sexual assault video and found it eye-opening. |
| 0:26.7 | I was wondering if you could also talk about man-on-man sexual assault as well. |
| 0:32.4 | A couple of years ago ago one of my close friends |
| 0:35.1 | admitted to me that he was assaulted by another man as an adult. The |
| 0:39.5 | possibility had not even crossed my mind until he told me that something like that could happen. |
| 0:45.7 | I feel especially terrible because I have literally laughed at those types of scenes and |
| 0:51.5 | films and shows where male on-mill sexual assault is used as a |
| 0:56.5 | punchline when I was younger. I still don't really understand why self-identified, quote-unquote, |
| 1:02.1 | straight men would target other men in that way. |
| 1:05.9 | I'm curious about your thoughts on it. |
| 1:07.8 | Brittle? |
| 1:08.8 | Yeah. |
| 1:09.8 | Yeah, you know it comes to mind Terry Cruz in the last few years, yeah, where he came out and said, you know, that person in the industry, kind of a powerful agent or something, had groped him inappropriately in that he felt completely dehumanized and a lot of people made fun of him like |
| 1:28.2 | Terry Cruz is this huge buff dude and and he's like come on get over it whatever you're not at risk or something |
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