This is a show about individual experience and personal identity.

There may be times when folks use identifying words or phrases that don't feel right to you.

That's part of what we're exploring here.

Please listen with an open heart, and as always, I welcome your polite, engaged feedback,

and I encourage you to continue the conversation in your own life and with your own community.

Welcome to Query.

Hey, Query.

Where is Cammy here?

Well, this week's episode is with writer Melinda Lowe, whose book, last sentence, the

Telegraph Club is amazing.

I love it.

But also, I have been reading Melinda for 20 years, like seriously 20 years.

We talked about that on the show, and also, every time I mention this, I get new Patreon

patrons.

You can go to patreon.com slash hey, Queeros.

Some of your fellow Queeros, they've been carrying the load for a while, and they need

to reduce their patronage.

They need to stop patronizing for a while because everybody's got to fix income and a fixed

amount of money.

Well, not Jeff Bezos, but us.

We do.

Hey, if you're somebody who hasn't supported the show, this could be your moment to step

...