I never understood why my parents divorced. They were Christians quote unquote and how

could you not make it work if you know Jesus? I'm sitting at home we're

pastoring we're two years in I got to choose my wife. I said, now I know.

Because I think I could be without her. Welcome to Family Life Today, where we want to help you pursue the relationships that matter most.

I'm Shelby Abbott and your hosts are Dave and Ann Wilson. You can

find us at family life today.com. This is family life today. So you've've

have done hundreds if not thousands of weddings.

I don't know if I've done thousands.

It feels like thousands sometimes.

And every single time I feel like when you come home you say the same thing.

Do you know what I'm going to say?

Yeah, I say, I'd love to say this at the wedding, but I'd never do another wedding if I said what I'm really thinking.

And it's like this, you know, you're looking at this couple and they're so in love and they're so excited and you want to say there could become a day where you

scream at your husband and say the biggest mistake of my life was marrying you like

my wife said six months after our wedding I want to say something like that.

Like what you feel right now is going to drift or it will go away at times.

But never at a wedding would you say that?

No.

You say it's going to be awesome, it's going to be wonderful, but we all know the reality is it's going to really, they're going to struggle. And it's hard. Yeah. Yeah. And so we've got a couple in the studio today that wrote a book about that struggle right I mean

it's about and by the way he's a pastor as well Kevin and his wife Marcia Myers

from Atlanta Georgia well suburbs of Atlanta right exactly 12stone Church I'm guessing you've done hundreds Well, Subur's a hunter, right? Exactly.

Twelvestone Church, I'm guessing you've done hundreds, if not almost thousands, of weddings.

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