Welcome to bewildered. I'm Martha Beck here with Rowan Mangan. At this crazy moment in history,

a lot of people are feeling bewildered, but that actually may be a sign we're on track.

Human culture teaches us to come to consensus, but nature, our own true nature, helps us come

to our senses. Rowan and I believe that the best way to figure it all out is by going through

a wilderness into bewildered. That's why we're here. You know what I'm seeing out in the world is

a lot of fear and a growing amount of despair. Maybe you're feeling that way too, because the ways

our culture has taught us to navigate the world, to navigate our lives, they are failing us.

We need a new language. We need a new set of tools to find our way individually and as a group.

And I know we can still do this. I put everything I do know about it into wayfinder life coach training

and the tools that I teach there are to help people redefine how we relate to each other,

how we make a living, how we do community. We can only change the world for the better if we redefine

how we think. Registration is open for the fall and the world needs wayfinders now more than ever.

So please go to MarthaBag.com and you'll find your way.

Hi, I'm Martha Beck and I'm Rowan Mangon and this is another episode of Be Willed at the podcast

for people trying to figure it out. Mm-hmm. Yeah. So, Rowey? Yeah. On this august occasion.

Mm-hmm. What is it you are trying to figure out in your life? Oh, Marty, so many things.

Um, you know, ultimately it's always child-rearing for me at this moment in my life.

It's like for me too because I am rearing myself as a 50-something-year-old child.

I'm just rearing up all the time. I'm just rearing at the child.

I'm rearing in a childish way like I go as I rear up. It prepares them for life because when

people rear up, they've been in future life. The baby will just know to go into a very tiny ball

and develop trauma responses. Yeah. Yeah. So, yeah, politeness markers, man. They're hard to teach.

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