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Dear Sugars

Making Love

Dear Sugars

WBUR

Sugar, Wbur, Dear, Society & Culture, Cheryl Strayed, Advice, Steve Almond, Boston

4.55.9K Ratings

🗓️ 14 February 2015

⏱️ 44 minutes

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Summary

The Sugars celebrate Valentine's Day by fielding questions from a married woman whose long-dormant passions have been reignited by an old high-school boyfriend, and from a young woman struggling with whether to leave behind her cheating, closeted girlfriend.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Must remember, do not forget.

0:07.0

Remind me to bring photo ID.

0:11.0

Reminder, set. Babe, can you make sure I don't forget my photo ID when I vote.

0:17.0

All right, love.

0:19.0

However you remember, you'll need photo ID to vote on the 2nd of May.

0:24.0

Find out more at Electoralcommission.org.

0:26.8

UK slash voter ID.

0:30.0

Dear Sugar is supported by

0:41.0

The universe has good news for the lost, lonely, and heart sick. Sugar is here, the both of us speaking straight into your

0:46.2

ears. I'm Cheryl Strade. I'm Steve Almond. This is Dear Sugar Radio.

0:51.6

Oh dear song, won't you please?

0:59.0

Share some little sweet days with me.

1:05.0

I check my bell-bives every day.

1:20.0

Oh, in the sugar, you see in my way.

1:29.0

So Cheryl, it is Valentine's Day and I love that we get a chance to talk about love. Because we're many things, but also we're kind of big sucker romantics. I want to read just a brief

1:35.5

passage from this novel stoner which I adore by the writer John Williams and I

1:39.8

think it's the best definition that I found of what love is. In his extreme youth, Stoner had thought of love as an absolute state of being to which if one were lucky one might find access.

1:53.6

In his maturity, he had decided it was the heaven of a false religion,

1:58.4

toward which one ought to gaze in an amused disbelief,

2:01.8

a gently familiar contempt, and an embarrassed nostalgia.

2:06.2

Now in his middle age, he began to know that it was neither a state of grace nor an illusion. he saw it as a human act of becoming, a condition that was

2:17.4

invented and modified moment by moment and day by day by the will and the intelligence and the heart.

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