This focus has bad words.

I have a strong belief that it's disrespectful to get rid of something if someone else took

the time and money to give it to me.

How do I let go of this belief and make decluttering less emotionally draining?

Hmm, I think you might call this a limiting belief.

I understand where it's birth from, right?

This is also the need for approval that we've sort of been talking about on this maximal

episode.

It seems to me that if I'm afraid of something because it's going to upset someone else,

hey, it's a bit of hubris for me to think that I have the power to upset you because

only you have the power to upset you.

I think all the great spiritual teachers would teach us that.

But it certainly feels like you can upset me.

We disempower ourselves.

I'll mention that Siddhono method again because he keeps calling you to the basic underlying

desires to notice what's happening when you have something like this happen.

Like, oh, I notice I feel like I believe this or I'm concerned that if this happens,

and we get lost in kind of the stories that have spun out.

And so it's kind of, it's the method calls you back into kind of deep, deep, deep, deep

down.

What's the underlying desire here?

And the three basic desires that it keeps calling up that all of this stuff is built on

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