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Fierce Marriage

Maintaining Trust After Rebuilding It

Fierce Marriage

Ryan and Selena Frederick

Christianity, Religion & Spirituality

4.9 • 4.3K Ratings

🗓️ 25 May 2021

⏱️ 50 minutes

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Summary

Over the past few weeks we've discussed what biblical trust looks like, what to do in the wake of broken trust, and how to get started on the path toward healing. Today we covered how to maintain trust in your marriage through four tangible steps: observe, inspect, assess, and maintain/repair. You'll have to listen for the details, since those words may not mean what you first think! We hope it blesses you.

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--- As promised in the episode, here's the list of "one-anothers" in Scripture. Enjoy!
  1. Accept One Another (Romans 15:7)
  2. Agree with One Another (1 Corinthians 1:10)
  3. Be Devoted to One Another (Romans 12:10)
  4. Be Humble Toward One Another (1 Peter 5:5)
  5. Be Kind and Compassionate to One Another (Ephesians 4:32)
  6. Be Patient with One Another (Ephesians 4:2)
  7. Build Up One Another (1 Thessalonians 5:11)
  8. Confess to One Another (James 5:16)
  9. Don’t Grumble Against One Another (James 5:9)
  10. Don’t Provoke One Another (Galatians 5:26)
  11. Do Not Slander One Another (James 4:11)
  12. Encourage One Another Daily (Hebrews 13:3)
  13. Equal Concern for One Another (1 Corinthians 12:25-27)
  14. Fellowship with One Another (1 John 1:7)
  15. Forgive One Another (Ephesians 4:32)
  16. Greet One Another (Romans 16:16)
  17. Honor One Another (Romans 5:10)
  18. Instruct One Another (Romans 15:14)
  19. Live in Harmony with One Another (Romans 12:16)
  20. Live in Peace with One Another (1 Thessalonians 5:13)
  21. Love One Another (John 13:34)
  22. Love One Another Deeply (1 Peter 1:22)
  23. Offer Hospitality to One Another (1 Peter 4:9)
  24. Pray for One Another (James 5:16)
  25. Serve One Another (Galatians 5:13)
  26. Spur One Another On (Hebrews 10:24)
  27. Stop Judging One Another (Romans 13:14)
  28. Submit to One Another (Ephesians 5:21)

Transcript

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0:00.0

If you've experienced a breach in trust or some sort of betrayal in marriage or just in your life

0:04.9

in any sort of friendship or relationship, you're not naturally going to gravitate toward trusting your spouse.

0:12.0

Am I wrong in saying that?

0:13.0

What do you think?

0:15.0

I don't know because I think sometimes we're in it.

0:18.0

I want to trust you.

0:19.5

Like I want that.

0:22.9

I think we do desire to trust our spouses. We marry them thinking that I'm going to be able to trust you on so many levels. And so

0:28.8

when the trust is broken, I think the hardest part is learning how to trust again and being able to

0:35.4

say, I can put my foot on this bridge of trusting you again.

0:40.5

And I have to, I might close my eyes and I might be gripping on hoping it doesn't break because

0:44.9

I don't know.

0:45.9

Like, but you want to trust it.

0:47.5

You want to get to that other side.

0:48.8

I do anyways.

0:49.7

Well, that's why I'm so you, by God's grace, we've not had this sort of catastrophic failure or, you know, betrayal or breach of trust in our own relationship.

0:59.4

So I don't want to, I don't want to project that on to you.

1:01.7

No, but I think even in like the day to day, you know, can I trust you to, you know, hear me and respect me and, you know, lead me in the way. Okay. When I'm in the mood to be

1:14.5

led. Yeah. Can I trust that? Rarely happens. I want to trust you. And I think I do think that there's

1:22.0

part of us that wants to trust our spouse. And when it's breached and broken, yeah, the hardest part

1:27.3

is getting back to that trust. And yeah, I think it's, I don't And when it's breached and broken, the hardest part is getting back to that

1:28.3

trust. And yeah, I think it's, I don't know if it's a natural gravitation. I don't, I can't call it that. I think I would gravitate more towards, I just wish we could go back to where we were to where I trusted you. And this wasn't broken. All right. So today, that's what we're talking about. If you're not, if you're not naturally

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