LYL #271: This is what I've found works for me
Love Your Life + Law of Attraction
Jennifer Bailey
4.9 • 806 Ratings
🗓️ 3 April 2023
⏱️ 16 minutes
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Summary
Today we're going to talk about the vibrational difference between guidance and control.
This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn…
- Why you feel friction when someone doesn't take your advice
- Why control doesn't feel good
- What many of us say we're doing rather than characterize our behavior as controlling
- Why thinking you know what's best for someone else is low vibe
- How you could—without meaning to—be robbing someone of their own agency
- What guidance (versus control) looks like
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to Love Your Life with Law of Attraction. |
| 0:25.6 | I'm your host Jennifer Bailey, and this podcast is designed to inspire, uplift, and |
| 0:31.9 | add more joy to your life. |
| 0:35.3 | Today, we're going to talk about the vibrational difference between guidance and |
| 0:40.4 | control. This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn why you feel friction when someone |
| 0:47.4 | doesn't take your advice. Why control doesn't feel good? What many of us say we're doing rather than characterize our behavior |
| 0:57.5 | as controlling. I'll talk about why thinking you know what's best for someone else is low vibe, |
| 1:05.7 | how you could without meaning to be robbing someone of their own agency and what guidance versus control looks |
| 1:16.6 | like. To access exclusive episodes of Love Your Life and binge the 250 plus episode archive, |
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| 1:55.9 | forward slash index. I offer schedule as you want coaching. If you want personalized guidance on applying |
| 2:05.6 | law of attraction, book your session at Jennifer 365.com forward slash coaching. And now |
| 2:14.2 | on to the episode. |
| 2:24.3 | Hello and welcome to Love Your Life. |
| 2:32.2 | The other day, a client shared how frustrated she is that her spouse won't take her advice about how to handle a situation at work. Her spouse keeps talking about |
| 2:37.6 | and worrying about the situation, and my client keeps offering advice and directives, usually |
| 2:46.3 | preceded by, here's what you should do. And yet, the situation remains. The spouse continues to |
| 2:55.1 | complain and worry, and my client, Carmen, is feeling negative emotion. She originally blamed |
| 3:03.6 | her negative emotion on the fact that her spouse wasn't taking her advice. However, as we |
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