Welcome to Love Your Life with Law of Attraction.

I'm your host Jennifer Bailey, and this podcast is designed to inspire, uplift, and

add more joy to your life.

Today, we're going to talk about whether you are relying on circumstances to be a

certain way in order to be happy. This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn about a time

in my life when my happiness very much depended on circumstances. I'll talk about the freedom I experienced when I stopped dividing

circumstances into columns of good and bad. You'll learn the life-changing paradigm about the

neutrality of circumstances and what's really creating your feelings. I'm going to talk about what's really going on when I

rail about slow service and let that be my quote unquote reason for being grumpy. I'll talk about

why blaming circumstances for how you feel is so energy depleting and low vibe and how to spend more time feeling elevated emotions.

So more and more circumstances go well for you.

I offer schedule as you want coaching.

If you want personalized guidance on applying law of attraction, book your session at Jennifer365.com

forward slash coaching. And now on to the episode. Hello and welcome to love your life. You know, there was a time in my life, I wouldn't even have

understood the question, are you only happy when circumstances are right? Well, obviously,

if good things happen, things I like, I can be happy. But if bad things happen,

things I don't like, I will be unhappy. Get the raise, book the vacation, lose five pounds,

I feel good. Stuck in traffic, the new client deal falls through. My husband doesn't ask about my day. I feel bad.

My happiness very much depended on circumstances. And circumstances needed to be just so,

just right, for me to feel good. And honestly, it didn't occur to me. There might be any other way, which meant, of course,

I expended a lot of energy trying to corral and control circumstances to manage and manipulate

situations, to direct and guide people to get them to do what I wanted them to do. I needed to whip

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