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Lt. David Carey Uncovering Our Own Capacity To Get Through Anything

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Education, Stoicism, Stoic, Ryan Holiday, Society & Culture, Self-improvement, Business, Daily Stoic, Stoic Philosophy, Philosophy, 694393

4.55.3K Ratings

🗓️ 29 July 2023

⏱️ 54 minutes

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Summary

Ryan speaks with Lieutenant David Carey in this second of a two-part interview about the bonds that he and his fellow POWs formed in captivity, why he feels no hatred to the guards who imprisoned and tortured him, his relationship with former cellmate Senator John McCain, how his experiences put daily life in perspective for him, and more.

David Carey is a retired Navy Lieutenant Commander who served in the Vietnam War, as well as an author, motivational speaker, consultant, and trainer. After being deployed aboard the aircraft carrier USS Oriskany in 1966, he was forced to eject over North Vietnam and taken as a Prisoner of War. After serving 2,022 days in the camp, David was released during Operation Homecoming in 1973 and was awarded the Legion of Merit with Valor. Since his retirement from the Navy in 1986, David has dedicated his work to sharing his experiences in the hopes of helping others through his speaking and training engagements and his book The Ways We Choose, Lessons for Life from a POW's Experience. David’s work can be found at davecarey.com.

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0:00.0

Welcome to the weekend edition of the Daily Stoic. Each weekday we bring you a meditation

0:09.7

inspired by the ancient Stoics, something to help you live up to those four Stoic virtues

0:15.1

of courage, justice, temperance and wisdom. And then here on the weekend we take a deeper

0:21.2

dive into those same topics. We interview Stoic philosophers, we explore at length how

0:28.7

these Stoic ideas can be applied to our actual lives and the challenging issues of our time.

0:35.9

Here on the weekend when you have a little bit more space when things have slowed down,

0:41.3

be sure to take some time to think, to go for a walk, to sit with your journal and most importantly

0:47.8

to prepare for what the week ahead may bring.

0:57.9

Hey, it's Ryan Holiday. Welcome to another episode of the Daily Stoic Podcast. This episode is

1:02.8

part two of my interview with Captain Dave Carey, a POW in Vietnam. He served on the same ship,

1:10.5

took off from the same ship, was shot down in the same plane as Admiral James Stockdale,

1:15.5

who we've talked about many times before. And we just had a beautiful chat out here at the

1:21.1

Painted Port. He lives in Georgetown. We had a beautiful chat about his experiences,

1:26.0

about testing these Stoic ideas in the laboratory of human experience. I was just so struck by

1:32.6

the scene he talks about getting a knock on the wall and then sort of getting past the message,

1:37.2

hey, remember, Stockdale says, you know, remember what Epictetus said, you know, just the idea,

1:43.2

Stockdale, just assuming that all his fellow prisoners were equally briefed on philosophy. I just

1:48.3

found that to be both hilarious and beautiful. And Dave and I had a great conversation. It was

1:57.1

truly an honor to talk with him. And I think you're really going to like this. He said something I've

2:02.4

been thinking a lot about actually ever since he said, when you're having a conversation, remember

2:06.6

the goal is always to get to the next conversation. You don't want to close doors with people,

2:11.6

you don't want to close people off. You don't want to say things that can't be unsaid. Which

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