Pastors perform weddings. It's God that does the marriage. Pastors don't join a

couple together. God joins together. Holding a marriage together is not just

saying, I'll be loyal to you like you're loyal to each other. No, you're loyal to

two things. The vows that you took before God and the God that you took the

vows before. That's what you're loyal to. The loyalty to each other is a

fruit of that. It's a result of that. A lot of couples that get married

sometimes it concerns me. They don't understand you're not just saying words

you are taking that's why I do my wedding. You're taking a sacred foul before God

till death to you part. We don't take that seriously much.

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the bachelor. And I get mesmerized because it's so comical. It's like are you

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