Loving Yourself Back — A Self-Love Guided Meditation
Calming Anxiety | Guided Meditation, Sleep Hypnosis & Panic Attack Relief
Calming Anxiety
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🗓️ 20 April 2026
⏱️ 11 minutes
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Summary
Join Martin, a former frontline paramedic and clinical hypnotherapist, for a gentle 10-minute journey into self-compassion.
Episode Chapters
- 00:00 – Introduction: Releasing the habit of being hard on yourself.
- 01:14 – Settling in and relaxing the body.
- 01:34 – The Vagus Nerve breath (4-2-8 technique) to signal safety to your nervous system.
- 02:58 – Visualization: The warm, golden room of rest.
- 04:44 – Seeing yourself through the eyes of someone who loves you.
- 05:50 – Self-love affirmations and internalizing your worth.
- 08:24 – Three daily caring tips for a happier life.
- 09:33 – Returning to the room and final reflections.
- I am worthy of love, simply because I exist.
- I release the habit of being unkind to myself.
- I am enough, right now, as I am.
- I treat myself with the same gentleness I would offer to a dear friend.
- I am deserving of rest, peace, and joy without having to earn it.
- The Kind Voice: When you notice your inner critic, pause and ask, "Would I say this to someone I love?".
- One Small Act of Self-Care: Do one thing today that is purely for you and not "productive"—like holding a warm cup of tea or taking a walk with no destination.
- Accept Your Worth: Even if you don't fully believe it yet, tell yourself you are enough; your subconscious is always listening.
- The Anxiety Circuit Breaker Course: If you are ready to go deeper into your healing journey, the full course is waiting for you at calminganxiety.fm.
- Mindful Walks with Bess: For more moments of peace, join me and Bess for our mindful walks on my YouTube channel @exhalewithmartin.
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Ready for More Calm?Thank you for listening to the Calming Anxiety Podcast, featuring guided meditation, mindfulness, and sleep hypnosis sessions with Martin Hewlett. Our mission is to provide you with proven tools for anxiety relief, stress reduction, and a path toward deep relaxation. Use this episode anytime you need to calm your mind and feel more at ease.
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| 0:00.0 | Somewhere along the way, you learn to be hard on yourself, |
| 0:05.0 | to pick at the edges, to measure, to compare. |
| 0:11.0 | Today, for just ten minutes, we are going to gently, carefully, pull all of that down. |
| 0:19.0 | You are allowed to be here. You are allowed to be here. |
| 0:22.6 | You are allowed to rest. |
| 0:25.6 | And you are more than enough, exactly as you are. |
| 0:30.6 | Hi, my name is Martin. |
| 0:34.6 | I'm a clinical hypnotherapist and a former frontline paramedic. |
| 0:39.6 | In my years on the road, I've sat with people in the most frightening moments of their lives. |
| 0:46.1 | And in all that time, I never once met a person who didn't deserve to be cared for, without |
| 0:52.6 | condition, without explanation, without having |
| 0:56.3 | to earn it first. |
| 0:58.7 | Today, I'm here to remind you of something your mind may have forgotten. |
| 1:05.2 | You deserve that same care. |
| 1:08.7 | Right now, exactly as you are. Let's begin. |
| 1:13.6 | Find somewhere comfortable. You can sit or lie down whatever feels right for your body today. |
| 1:21.6 | And if it's safe, let your eyes close. |
| 1:26.6 | Allow your shoulders to drop just away from your ears. Let your jaw soften. |
| 1:34.3 | And now let's breathe together. In through your nose for four. Then we'll hold for two, and then a very long, slow out breath |
| 1:47.7 | through the mouth for eight. Ready? In two, three, four. Hold two, out, two, three, four, five, six, seven, eight. |
| 2:09.6 | Brilliant. |
| 2:11.6 | When you breathe in, feel your ribcate rise and expand. |
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