Loving An Addict: with Tara Booker, LCSW
You Need Therapy
iHeartPodcasts
2.4 • 589 Ratings
🗓️ 7 August 2023
⏱️ 50 minutes
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Summary
This week is round two of our addiction series. In this episode, Tara Booker and Kat talk about how to live an addict well, what it’s like to be in relationship with someone who struggles with addiction, and where healthy boundaries lie in these scenarios. Nothing is black and white here, which may make things more difficult and less confusing at the same time.
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| 0:00.0 | This is an IHeart podcast. |
| 0:05.1 | Michael Lewis here. |
| 0:06.8 | My bestselling book, The Big Short, tells the story of the buildup and burst of the U.S. |
| 0:12.1 | housing market back in 2008. |
| 0:14.8 | A decade ago, the Big Short was made into an Academy Award-winning movie. |
| 0:18.7 | Now I'm bringing it to you for the first time as an |
| 0:21.6 | audiobook narrated by yours truly. The Big Short Story, what it means to bet against the market, |
| 0:27.5 | and who really pays for an unchecked financial system, is as relevant today as it's ever been. |
| 0:33.2 | Get the Big Short now at Pushkin.fm slash audio books or wherever audio books are sold. |
| 0:40.6 | Coming up on you need therapy. From the perspective of somebody who loves an addict, how do you |
| 0:48.9 | help and not enable? I think the first most important thing is to understand addiction yourself. Whatever that |
| 0:57.6 | means for you to be like, oh, I think I get it. I think I get why people struggle with this. |
| 1:03.7 | How a person could get to such a place in their life. I think I get what it means to not have |
| 1:09.7 | control over your behavior. |
| 1:12.7 | I started to realize that not being an expert isn't a liability. |
| 1:17.2 | It's a real gift. |
| 1:19.1 | If we don't know something about ourselves at this point in our life, |
| 1:22.3 | it's probably because it's uncomfortable to know. |
| 1:25.1 | If you can die before you die, then you can really live. |
| 1:29.0 | There's a wisdom at death's door. |
| 1:32.2 | I thought I was insane. |
| 1:33.7 | Yeah. |
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