Hello, Tower Bottoms. It's me, your host, Zach Noey Towers, and this is a podcast about sex

and so much more. A little bit about Sada Mi. This kind of goes hand in hand with my guests.

The interview you're about to hear kind of jog this memory, I guess because it's not a great one,

but one time I was communicating with a man on Grindr, kind of like a big young daddy type.

He's like 6'4 kind of muscular.

And the discussion we had was about me blowing him.

And all well and good, he comes over.

It starts happening.

And he's kind of like rough. Like he pulls my hair at

one point and I was like, oh, um, and I kind of just like went with it. But like also like, you know,

dog, dog tagged it where not dog tagged it. Earmarked it. I made note of it. I was like, oh, I didn't love the hair pole.

And then he, like, spit on my face.

And I was like, okay, this guy is really getting into this, like, dumb thing he has going on.

And then a third thing happened.

He slapped me kind of hard. And I like pulled back and I was

like, I, I, please do not slap me. And I was like, the spit is fine, but like I don't really like

my hair pulled either. And like the, we were near the end of the scenario anyway, but when he left,

I found myself kind of like shaken. This is God, years ago now. But I was shaken and I was like,

I need to let this guy know that like what happened was not really okay. We didn't discuss it.

And I felt kind of like, I don't want our user

violated, but it was more than I bargained for. And I guess like as a proactive member of like a

sexual community, I did feel compelled to tell him like, you know, those are three things that

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